Felt a lot of tension yesterday. Sorry!

Germany
September 8, 2017 3:19am CST
I just want to express my feelings about yesterday! I was not able to realize it yesterday because I felt so happy and overwhelmed with too much interactions with most of mylotters and was thinking maybe, If I share my thoughts and points of view, They might somehow understand me or others who also have different beliefs and views in life. I believe there are times I`m unconscious of my responses and maybe some might found it so offensive. So, may I ask if you can tell me here and help me see what I need to change? It will be a great help.. Can you discuss it with me here?
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18 responses
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
8 Sep 17
i'm not sure what happened and with who, but sometimes, i have read/witnessed interactions here where i understand what both parties are saying, but hesitate to get involved because either 1, i don't know how to express it myself or 2. it might make the situation worse. maybe you can clarify the issue with that member through pm instead.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
I was thinking the same way too. Thank you for clearing it to me. I`m feeling a lot better now! Thanks for your precious time and dropped by here
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@hereandthere ..Yes and the same thing when you grew up in different country and now living in other country
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• Philippines
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 miscommunications and misunderstandings are quite common in an international site like this since we come from different cultures, societies, even in the way we write and the words we use
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Sep 17
I don't remember we have a bad conversation here so I think I am not much of contributors for this discussion. You are a nice woman, sometimes whether we do bad things or good things people will still have something to talk about us.
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
Hi there! Good Morning! Thank you so much for the sweet message. Yes, I agree with you on that part but still having a majority of kind heart people like you can really be so helpful in lifting up the spirit of a person who is in need of cheering up! I`m so glad and thankful for being here with the community and knowing someone like you being around
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• Germany
2 Oct 17
@JustBhem Hi there. I was late browsing some of my old posts since I had problem on handling notifications but thank you for the thoughtful message
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 Thanks, mylot is my crying shoulder. Whenever I feel lonely, sad, mad or alone. I write my thoughts and people can make you feel better. I am thankful you feel better now.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
9 Sep 17
i sometimes get to answer some comments that are not good to read, but i have to stand on my principles and not let anybody step on me.
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
Hi there! Good Morning! I understand your point There are times that we thought others might be stepping on us but will that help you ease the pain by fighting back or make ourselves so angry with that person? Wish you a nice day! Thanks for dropping by
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• Germany
12 Sep 17
@ridingbet ..That`s ok, If that way will really helps you keeping out those nasty commenters but for me, I just stay away from them as much as possible because I don`t want to argue on things for nothing
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 when i read a rude comment, i sometimes respond back with a lot of sarcasm; that way, the user will note that i am not a person that he or she should mess around with.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
9 Sep 17
I have not noticed any offensive comments from you. Relax and just enjoy your weekend.
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
Hi there! Good Morning! Thank you for being there. Yes, I was at my childish loneliness days but I`m very thankful to all of mylot friends including you for being there to cheer me up!
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• Germany
2 Oct 17
@thelme55 I know it`s kind of late to reply now but thanks for the thought
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
11 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 you are very welcome. I hope you are okay now. Good night.
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@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
9 Sep 17
Always look for today. That is the way you have to think. And happy mylotting.
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
Hi there! Good Morning! Thanks
• Satna, India
9 Sep 17
adjustment is one thing to try
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
Hi there! Good Morning! Thanks
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
8 Sep 17
If you do a lot of interacting you will get a lot of notifications and that can get a bit overwhelming sometimes. Take your time and just enjoy the site don't stress it. Are you new here? My suggestion is to always be kind. If you don't like something someone says just skip to another post. If someone comments on your post be sure to reply to it when you can. Then what I do is go to one of their discussions and read and comment on it to see what they are up to.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Hi there! Thank you for a very nice suggestion. I think you`re right, I got so overwhelmed with notifications yesterday eventhough I was not new here. I just started so childishly sad and wanted to cry it out not until mylotter friends started to cheer me up including you now. Thank you for the time. I`m feeling a lot better now Wish to have a great interaction with you more
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
@shaggin ..Yes! I`m so glad I was able to come back here and feels great being part of this community! Good Morning!
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 that is awesome that you were able to be cheered up by mylot members here. We are a wonderful little online community aren't we :)
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@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Sep 17
What happened to you yesterday, I did not noticed it ? I can be harsh times to times, but most of the time I tend to cool down things. And... well... we cannot be friendly with everybody.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
..I started so early yesterday and got carried away with so much "Discussions", from there I ended so tired and woke up so early today to start a good discussions but I felt the silence around and thought of releasing it right away. Now, I realized that a lot of mylotter friends including you here are so caring and thoughtful, Helped me to get over it so fast and now I`m in the mood to kill those sadness around here
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@topffer ..Oh Thank you so much Yes, I did rest yesterday so early went to bed and was not able to say Good night here! but so thankful for mylotter friends including you being here at my childish moment of sadness..
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@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 Lol, everybody appreciates you. When you feel very tired, you should just rest for a while.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
8 Sep 17
What made you tense? Was it something you read here or something you were feeling at the time. I don't understand.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Hi there my friend! I think @dodoazo was right. Maybe, it was somehow related with my personal problems and was striked out by some of mylotters discussions.
• Germany
8 Sep 17
@dodoazo ..hehehe..Thanks for cheering me up
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
@dodoazo ..Nice! Thanks! Good Morning! See you more around!
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
8 Sep 17
I must have missed what went on...
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
That`s good! Don`t mind it! as long as I know I didn`t made you felt bad with my responses, I feel good! Thank you so much my friend
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@sishy7 Oh so happy to know that from a dear friend like you ..Whew! Good thing
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 No worries... I don't have the slightest idea what you were talking about... I've never seen any of your posts (discussions/responses/comments) that would cause tension or bad feelings...
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
8 Sep 17
Hmm, I think I missed it. I've never seen you say anything that I thought was offensive. To me, you always seem so nice and friendly. I hope you're having a better day today.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@deazil ..Oh. but you don`t sound old to me Thank you for being so caring for my childish feelings explosions . You`re a great friend
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Oh so nice of you..Thank you so much for that sweet compliment! I started feeling sad in the morning but because of many mylotter friends including you made me get over it so fast and now feeling much better ..How about you? How`s your day?
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 You're welcome! I'm glad you feel better now. That's what friends are for.My day just started, I haven't been up for very long. But I think I'm off to a good start - I woke up and I was still breathing. I'm old, that's one of the first things I check when I wake up - am I still breathing?
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• United States
8 Sep 17
No I had not noticed anything odd from you my friend.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Oh Thank you my dear friend! I just started some childish feelings this morning and had to release it but I`m ok now..Thank you for being there, It helps me a lot to feel great before going offline
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView ..I`m feeling a lot better now my dear friend! I will be off soon now. I`m glad that you are there in times of my childish sadness. Thank you
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• United States
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 WelcomeHope you are feeling okay now.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
8 Sep 17
I am not sure what happened, but you seem like a very sweet person and I hope that any misunderstanding has been cleared up. Have a great Friday.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Oh Thank you so much . Yes, I got over it very fast because many mylotter friends including you gave me some cheering up! I really do appreciate it!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 You're welcome I am going off to make lunch now. Take care.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
@bluesa ..Oh..Have a nice lunch. Take care too
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
8 Sep 17
Good or bad, cool or uncool its okay, its all part of discussion.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Thanks I find myself needing to release it
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
@ilocosboy ..Thank you
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
8 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 that's good
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
8 Sep 17
I find from time to time when there are things that are making me feel this way, whether it be here, real life, Facebook, etc. many times just best to sign out, and go find other things to do like Read, Pray, go watch a movie, etc. and things usually will be alright. Just don't sweat the small stuff. Enjoy this site for what it is.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Thank you for the suggestions. I will remember to consider that when times like this happens again.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Sep 17
I wish I could help but have not seen any problems. If I do I will come back and let you know.
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• Germany
14 Sep 17
Oh..Thank you so much! Wish you a great day today! Good Morning!
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@Juliaacv (48415)
• Canada
8 Sep 17
If someone left you a comment that upset you, then let it go and move on.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Thanks . I can`t help myself sometimes, I really get affected and sensitive with many things. So, It`s my way of CRYING IT OUT since I realized that CRYING INSIDE was not healthy
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@Kandae11 (53679)
8 Sep 17
One has to have what is called a "thick skin" when involved in social sites - but Mylot is reasonably okay. Try not to feel bad - instead think of all that is good in your life.
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• Germany
8 Sep 17
Thank you for the comfort and cheering up I`m feeling a lot better now and I guess, It had helped me a lot with so much caring from mylotter friends including you to recover so fast. I do appreciate so much for you being there
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