How would you know a pedophile?

@vandana7 (98826)
India
September 9, 2017 2:51am CST
So a 7 year old student had his throat slit by a pedophile, who happened to be the school bus driver. Even if the school had availed the services of a detective agency, chances of discovering such dark secrets are remote. Me says, schools use police services, have each and every candidate they want to recruit whether as teacher, or bus driver, or helper, etc., who is to work on the premises, and make these people go through a. Lie detector tests; b. Truth serum tests; AND c. Hypnotism. All the three should indicate that the person does not have such tendencies. If that is done, it may be deemed that the person can be recruited, and the school has taken adequate precautions to ensure that the children are safe. In fact, I have been asking for all three such tests, in other cases as well for faster resolution of the cases, because it does not make sense that people accused of 1993 blasts be convicted only in 2017. That is plain injustice to say the least.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
9 Sep 17
We have had a case of a bus driver sentenced in the early 2000's for crimes committed in the 1970's (he had murdered several children). I think you should add brutal interrogation and torture to your list. Seriously, it is already difficult to recruit teachers because the wages are relatively low, if you ask them to go through your a/b/c process, they would all resign in my country where the use of lie detectors and truth serums are forbidden because they are considered like harming human dignity. For hypnosis, it is impossible to mesmerize somebody not wanting to be mesmerized. Actually, as soon as a teacher or somebody in contact with children is suspected to be a pedophile, he/she is suspended from duty until the end of the investigation, and fired if the investigation confirms it (30 teachers in 2016 in France). Besides nobody sentenced for something related to children can be allowed to work with children. I think it is difficult to do more.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
9 Sep 17
@topffer brutal interrogation and torture would surely prevent any good person to apply for that work.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
That can't be reason not to make children safe..I mean their wages problem. If government is spending more on legal systems, relating to such crime (hey that premises where court is there, costs, as do judges, infrastructure, services of attorneys, transportation, holding the alleged criminal in prison, nabbing the alleged criminal, time costs of police force for identifying the alleged criminal, reagents costs at forensics and records maintenance, etc., for all of which tax payers pay something).
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@topffer (42156)
• France
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 The wages are not the main problem, and the justice does its job, but nobody would accept lie detector or truth serum to get a job. Workers are human beings, you cannot handle them like animals.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
9 Sep 17
Are you serious? I have nothing to hide but I would never applied if I was requested to go through all those ridiculous tests, not to mention that the lie detector is not at all a sure test, stressed people fail, criminals pass it with flying colors.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
@LadyDuck .. But we do agree to go through those metal detectors for proving that we are not terrorists!!! Be it at airport, or malls, we do that, don't we? So does that make us potential criminals..? As I see it, this to me is safety of the child vs. my perceived dignity/indignity. Nobody will remember that I went through that. But a child will be scarred for life. Even if not mine, I would still want to offer him or her a fair chance for healthy and safe life.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 I am sorry, but I do not agree at all on this.Humans are not all criminals and doing something like this is pretending that they are ALL potential criminals and must be screened. We must not suffer for a minority. Severe punishments and an accurate selection are important, not harassment.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 Going through a metal detector takes 5 seconds while what you propose in an absolute violation of the personal rights and the privacy. I know that in our countries this would be considered insane.
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
9 Sep 17
It's really hard to find out if a person is like that. You can have a completely normal looking person but when he is in the confines of his home, he becomes a different person. I'd also think that for a lot of tests that we have, these people will find ways to bypass the results and come out with something normal.
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• Philippines
10 Sep 17
@vandana7 That's true. Do you have those things where you live?
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
@rosedust82 .. We have those ways to filter pedophiles, but we do not have legal sanction to make it mandatory.
@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
They will. But uneducated ones will not know. We would have filtered at least those. And if they are the innocent ones, they would find it easier to find employment.
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep 17
Sadly it is hard to find these people unless they are caught in the act or some brave child actually reports it and is believed. These people who prey on children do not deserve to breathe the same air as anyone else! They will plead for their human rights but no one considers the human rights of their victims. A single bullet to the back of the head is the answer to those caught!
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
LOL...that is a quick remedy for something that is so heinous and the guilt for which the child carries for life.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
@garymarsh6 .. Exactly. That is a lifetime punishment. It deserves correspondingly lifetime punishment. On a serious note, if a child suffers it, and whatever is the guilt associated with it, thanks to our moral environment, does he or she not want to hit out at adults for making him or her uncomfortable? Will he follow the same path as a way to imitate adult? Or will he or she set out on revenge with adults, defiant in attitude? Let us just say, we just destroyed the brain of a child who could have given us cure to cancers or hurricanes. All because some pedophile could not control his urge.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 Any child who experiences such horrific crime will have that on their minds until they reach the grave. It is horrible.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Sep 17
It can be very hard to weed out the 'baddies' in these cases.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
It is so hard to say that to parents of children. :( They feel school could have done something quite forgetting that these wolves are right around their own homes, as friends, family, neighbors, or even other people. Just that the child happened to be at school on that unfortunate day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Sep 17
This got me thinking. How can we determine if a person a Pedophile? It's too hard to trust someone.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
Yes. But the problem does need to be addressed.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 Why is that?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 I hate it when people doing that kind of criminal thing for children. We also had an issue with that here and the pedophile and its accomplice were captured. I don't know if you heard of it. The Daisy's destruction?
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@yugocean (9965)
• India
9 Sep 17
I don't think such process is going to happen because there is already too much corruption and yes Reservation for certain where honesty and hardworking is not counted. It will require system change before all this. A teacher must be like a Guru who teach truth and bring out beat. But this is now hardly happening. We have to change the system back.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
I think much of teaching should come at home. Like teacher teaches in the classroom, but student sees it in laptop. No worry about the child being hurt, no worry about the child getting into bad company or falling in drain, or getting infections, or fighting. No tension about transporting either.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
@yugocean .. I think going to school should become a thing of past.
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@yugocean (9965)
• India
10 Sep 17
@vandana7 This want during our time, just remember. Only one TV channel, and all was family program. Going to movie was best fun. Now there are plenty of choices everywhere. TV and Internet.
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@jstory07 (134456)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Sep 17
Aperson like that should have never been around children but that can happen.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
I agree. And it is places like this, schools, orphanages, and homes that such people find their victims more easily. Sigh.
@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
10 Sep 17
I really don't think there is a way to weed out these people. People can hide who they are for so long. it is only in extreme cases such as this that the truth comes out. There are many recorded cases of school teachers and what they did to their students. Students were afraid to report the abuse. Years later it comes out in public and now they can do something about it.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
That is precisely why we need new ways to prevent such things.
@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
10 Sep 17
@vandana7 Right, but your way isn't the right way either. Some of your methods are barbaric and nobody would ever submit to such tests.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
@poehere ..Agreed that my ways are barbaric. But if a person is behaving barbarically (and I do believe sodomizing a 7 year old is barbaric), the question becomes like deserves like. Ok...suppose I said ...it is up to you all, do you all want students to trust you? If you all want students to trust you, go through with these. If not, there is 50:50 chance that the student would not trust you.
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@just4him (306154)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Sep 17
Yes it is. Is the person free to live as he pleases while he waits for his day in court, or is he in jail during that time?
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
@just4him .. There were two of them, the last time I saw only one of them was apprehended. Yes, the child was sexually abused.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
He was taken to the jail. He is too poor to seek bail.
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@just4him (306154)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 I'm glad he's in jail.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
9 Sep 17
It is hard to know if a man is a paedophile. I don't think paedophiles will apply for a job that need the 3 tests you mentioned above. For all we know, it is just an uncle, a friend, a neighbour or a gardener that we know is a good and kind person.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
Exactly!!! Even for orphanages that should be the criteria.
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@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
10 Sep 17
Yeah..my mom told me of this case. I was so disgusted. In India it takes such a long time to get justice. If the guy hadn't confessed... i wonder how long it would have taken to catch him.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
10 Sep 17
So I feel all those who enter the school premises should be made to go through such tests, and those who have not gone through such tests, like sales persons or whoever, should have their finger prints, pictures, etc., taken and there should be record, physical as well as digital, of their movements in the premises, such as somebody accompanying them all over in the premises, wherever they want to go.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
9 Sep 17
Every point you made is worth considering
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
I know ...I make a lot of points for consideration. Point is those who matter would not consider it. lol
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
9 Sep 17
@spaceseed .. I don't think anybody is superior or inferior. We all have different exposures that is all. So if thinking out of box is needed, we should be willing to do so, and check what it brings about ..does it make our world a safer place? If so, why not make it a permanent thing. Children are vulnerable. There is enough percentage of them being abused at home by drunkard and gambler parents. Enough of them running away from poverty and becoming victims in every way to those on streets and railway platforms. Enough of them in orphanages with similar stuff but unable to tell it to anybody. If we let the luckier few also suffer, we have done nothing in our lives.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
9 Sep 17
@vandana7 Yet you are writing about it and doing your job as a good human, which makes us feel good
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@YrNemo (20261)
9 Sep 17
The poor kid! Everywhere, it is the same, lengthy court cases which seem to take forever to resolve.
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