People give Up too Soon

@Hatley (157795)
Garden Grove, California
September 12, 2017 7:51pm CST
My sort of philosophy comes form that song quote When you are down and out, lift up your head and shout Its going to be a great day unquote y can rise above troubles , , see life has offered you double good things so go grab them We see so many who came here and post heart breaking tales of all the' bd things that happened. I advise them to talk to us. Just to have somone to listen then we offer ways to thrash the troubles and begin to see life is so great.. WE hear how someone has been mistreated and after reading what sh said I wondered why her'hubby ' abd her kids had alll eft her. We have only heard her side but wevan wonder if she sor tof made a lot of her own troubles too In a divorce I maintain it takes two to tongo and it takes two to bust up a barrage too. So hear both sides of a yeling screaing bust up before puting the blame on any one person I do not believe that all marital portable are cause d by only hthge man. we women can also misbehave and blame it all on him One original post and graphic b y P Hatley copyrighted 2017, So I say life threw me off ,y horse three times, and I did dust myself off, ad et right back up on the cantankerous' criltter, troubles. Sometimes we keep working at a life 'problem then just give up when in another short time we would have solved the problem and be happy again.
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@mandala100 (25006)
• Hong Kong
13 Sep
@Hatley Thank you for this wonderful advice my friend.
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
I hhoe I can help someone here.
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@mandala100 (25006)
• Hong Kong
13 Sep
@Hatley Yes you can my friend.
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@marguicha (80398)
• Chile
13 Sep
Good advice.
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
thanks glad it seens god toyou hooed it was good advice
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@marguicha (80398)
• Chile
13 Sep
• Jacksonville, Florida
13 Sep
Of course it can also be the woman too. However, we don't know the whole story so maybe the woman your referring to has had a tough life. Maybe the husband put things in the kids heads to distort the truth and make them want to leave her. We just don't know... =( We should not give up easily though, life has it's ups and downs-especially in marriage as we know.
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
yes i never judge as ou are right we do notknow and is not fair to judge as we are usually really wrong tooyesyou an di both ow about problems and we both wor ked them out the best we knew how thats why I landed here and am stlll here lol
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@FayeHazel (10881)
• United States
13 Sep
I think I needed this message today. Thank you!
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
I havelearned that you willl agi ng rise and shione' as; you face the bad as y ou also get the good too
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@FayeHazel (10881)
• United States
13 Sep
@Hatley Ups and downs huh? I just wish there were mostly up
@prashu228 (22131)
• India
13 Sep
Yes.. it's always a problem solving . Good words of wisdom
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
thaks yes we all keep haing to solve problems lol lol
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@jstory07 (57115)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Sep
We should not give up and try again to make everything right again.
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
ade that song ,ny mantra and I have been down and out 'asn we dustes ourselves off and eventually it was a great day.
@louievill (16234)
• Philippines
13 Sep
Thank you for your wisdom
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@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
youi are welco e indeed
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@singhisback (2258)
• Jalandhar, India
13 Sep
That's so inspirational. Thanks Patsie
@Hatley (157795)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep
I ho ped it was goodadvice
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