A Sensitive Situation!
By Darcy Nemo
@YrNemo (20261)
September 18, 2017 8:21pm CST
Met my German neighbor suddenly that morning. I was so pleased to let her know that I knew her new neighbor, the British couple. Their youngest went to the same school with mine long time ago. The house is still being built but it is going to be finished soon.
That British lady had suddenly approached me a few days ago to tell me that her family would move into my street. (She used to keep to herself, not keen to socialize with anyone so I am still puzzled of why she suddenly chatted to me.)
Alas, my good news made the senior (in her early 80s) wrinkled her nose.
Turned out her old husband made some water-soluble marks on the old fence (a week or so ago) to guide the fence man who was about to do the dividing fence for both properties. For that, the German was threatened with jail and physical violence by his new British neighbor & the neighbor's relatives.
The cheerful senior wanted to tell me more, but I had to rush to an appointment so we parted.
Let hope the old couple is going to be okay with their new neighbor. They have been there on that property for about 50 years. Do you get on well with your neighbors? (Mine have been very good to me so far (knock on wood!).)
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Sep 17
Most of our neighbors have been wonderful people. Now, we have a neighbor who doesn't like anybody!
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Sep 17
@YrNemo Grumpy is no problem, physically doing nasty things, no way.
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@YrNemo (20261)
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19 Sep 17
@kobesbuddy (One of my neighbors was like that, he just looked at me like he got a tummy ache. For three years I tried to make him smile back. Well, he sold the place and moved away. The current neighbor is not bad .)
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
19 Sep 17
Oh dear I hope this will be sorted Darcy. Sounds dubious.
I dont really speak much to neighbors here it is not that way here but no one bothers anyone good enough.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
19 Sep 17
@YrNemo Yes the apartments here are that kind of community..no spirit just people living day to day.
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@LadyDuck (457973)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 17
@YrNemo We all have a vegetable garden and fruit trees, so in season when we have too much of a product we offer to the other neighbors. Soon I will receive figs from one of my neighbors, I still have tomatoes and I will give those in exchange.
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@YrNemo (20261)
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19 Sep 17
Do you often give each other foodstuff? My old neighbors often did that, very funny actually since I explained to one, that I wouldn't be able to give her any foodstuff in return (she made wonderful challah). The new one often gives me some veggie she has in her front garden. I have no clue what to give her back (They are Chinese, I can't speak their language and they can't speak English).
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@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
Seems there is some bad blood already.I hope they work out their issues.Maybe being neighbours is for a good cause,It might be the beginning of a solid relationship in future.
Well growing up we were really close with my neighbors and it was a friendly community.Where I stay now its apartments so everyone with His own life.I can't tell you the last time i saw my immediate neighbor.
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Well..So far, they are ok but of course there are times they just don`t want to greet you with a smile
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@YrNemo (20261)
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19 Sep 17
My guess is the younger couple is still hyper with finally building a house of their dream. They are not bad people really, but right now, all the stress of dealing with tradesmen must have made the husband a bit too aggressive. (The German senior pointed that out!)
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
19 Sep 17
We don't have problems with our neighbors although we don't really socialize with them either... Just waving and smiling whenever we happen to see each other while we're getting in or out our driveways... Oh, my husband does more than that whenever there's a chance, he would talk to the guys next door when he sees them...
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@Letranknight2015 (51509)
• Philippines
19 Sep 17
I guess they had trouble and got pre occupied from seeing other neighbors. At least she had a chat with you.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
19 Sep 17
Hope they are able to work it out. Not good when you move into a new neighborhood and greeted with conflict instead of a pie.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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19 Sep 17
Those pesky British! Always so rude to people ... *sigh*
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Sep 17
Yes I do, just one that drinks a lot I dont have much to do with.
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@YrNemo (20261)
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19 Sep 17
The suburb we were at before, some neighbors were constantly having troubles with the police. We heard kids crying, adults screaming very often. One such neighbor just disappeared one night, left all his furniture behind. Very peculiar. (after not paying rent for a few months we were told.)
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@YrNemo (20261)
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24 Sep 17
@shaggin considering that squatter rights exist, we do have to be careful. If you let a neighbor take over a small stretch of land for more than a number of years and not complaining, by right, the neighbor could claim it as theirs. Guess that neighbor pulled some tricks like that before to your parents.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48908)
• United States
19 Sep 17
I am fortunate that most of my neighbors are related to me.
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@KnehKnah (3584)
• Philippines
21 Sep 17
Oh! I hope this neighbors of yours will just live peacefully in their dwelling.
Been in this subdivision since in was in Grade 3 (age 9). Am now 60 and still reside at the same lot (tho' different house as the original was razed by fire in 2006), with my family. Our neighbors? Oh! They're fun to be with despite the usual flood during heavy rain & typhoon! They're some of God's blessings to me & to my family.
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