arranged marriage or love marriages are better

India
September 19, 2017 3:45am CST
now days we see our children find their partners by themselves for marriage.When the age is fit for marriage they tell their parents about their choice. Some parents allow love marriage,some parents themselves find suitable alliance for their children. Should children given the freedom to find their own partners.
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Christine basweti
@Christinb (390)
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19 Sep 17
I think love marriages are the best because u live with someone that u really love
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Mohd Khalif Khairuddin
@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
19 Sep 17
Agree to that because im marrying with the one i love.
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Christine basweti
@Christinb (390)
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19 Sep 17
@khalif85 am happy for you
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Mohd Khalif Khairuddin
@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
19 Sep 17
@Christinb thank you my dear friend.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Sep 17
Indians prefer to arranged marriage. However, time changed and customs changed. Children prefer to find partners by own. Life after marriage is important, the sacrifice, understanding, compromise, all these aspects may determine the life.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
@Sreekala ..I agree..It`s really some kind of a magic thing that comes to every person
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Well..I grew up in a culture who don`t believe in arranged marriages so much but I think most parents do prefer or recommends their friends kids to theirs believing that they had known a long time and it`ll be more comfortable seeing them together during reunions Which most children don`t find it good since there are times they don`t feel anything about love but just another brother or sister like feeling
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Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16049)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
Love marriages are the best. What about you? What do you think
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Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16049)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
@Destesh Yeah. :) I think it is mostly indians that practice arranged marriages
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Mohd Khalif Khairuddin
@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
19 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha i also think dad because always see arranged marriage in the bollywood movie.
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Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16049)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
@khalif85 me too. In bolly movies, you will see the parents getting mad at youths who fall in love. They like looking for a partner for their child
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Mohd Khalif Khairuddin
@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
19 Sep 17
Always go with love marriage. Your culture practice arrange marriage?
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The Fly One
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
19 Sep 17
I have no idea how I would survive with an arranged marriage. Love rules.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 Sep 17
Both are very good, if partners are able to adjust with each other.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
20 Sep 17
Anything is good .. when both know what they want in their life.
Bush Stan
@Kosgey (1707)
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19 Sep 17
That is the way forward.
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Nancy_Nikki
@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
I go with love marriages..Sometimes i get a hard time with the choice I make for myself what if someone else made the choice on my behalf?so scary.... I think forever is a long time to live with someone you do not love but you are together because of an arrangement.
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JOSEPHINE
@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
I would go for love marriages, everyone has a right to get their own loved one.Let children be given the freedom to choose their loved ones and these are the marriages that last since they understand each other.
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