Are You In Control Of Your Life?

@mandala100 (35800)
Hong Kong
September 19, 2017 1:38pm CST
Our life is so dynamic and everyday seems to be a new adventure where we find new meanings and challenges in our life. There are also so many things in life that we can change and some things that we cannot change at all no matter how hard we try. Are you in control of your life right at this very stage? What are the things in your life that you have total control? Do you sometimes feel that you are not in control of your life and that events just passes you by? Picture credit: simpleprogrammer.com
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@Kandae11 (35026)
19 Sep
I would really like to think that I am, but I doubt it. Life is not a straight path, it does throw us some unexpected curves.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@Kandae11 That's right my friend and how we wish life is just like a straight line my friend.
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@1creekgirl (9899)
• United States
19 Sep
We like to think we're in control and master of our fate, but for the most part, we're really not. As @TiarasOceanView said, life is life and most of it happens without our consent.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@1creekgirl That's true my friend and there are really so many things that are beyond our control like the sudden turn of events or some twist of fate in a manner of saying.
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• United States
19 Sep
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
23 Sep
@TiarasOceanView I'll see you soon my friend.
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@Corbin5 (99842)
• United States
19 Sep
Yep, I am in as control as a human can be regarding his or her life. Being retired makes being in control a lot easier.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@Corbin5 That's good to hear my friend and I think being retired gives you the luxury of time about almost everything in life my friend.
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@Corbin5 (99842)
• United States
19 Sep
@mandala100 When one is retired, one can say "No" whenever they want.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@Corbin5 That's one of the good thing about being retired my friend.
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@KrauseHome (34982)
• United States
19 Sep
For the most part with the help of Jesus and Prayer I would say I am, and one of the reasons my life is now getting back on key to where it needs to be.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@KrauseHome I'm glad to hear that my friend.
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• United States
19 Sep
I am in as much control as I can muster Peter of my life. More so now than in past years.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@TiarasOceanView I'm glad to hear that my friend. I'm trying to manage part of my life that I can but although there are really some aspect of our life that are beyond our control or really so unpredictable my friend.
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@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
19 Sep
@mandala100 so far I'm still the captain of my life hehe
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@tech40 That's so good to hear my friend.
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@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
20 Sep
@mandala100 we don't need co-pilot hehe
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@tech40 You are right my friend since you are "the master of your fate, and the captain of your soul my friend".
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
19 Sep
I dont feel like i am know a days things have happen to knock me off course trying to get back on course but it so hard. But I will never give up but some days are hard.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@William21001 Yes my friend. One should keep on fighting my friend.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
19 Sep
@mandala100 I Had health problems that made my life swerve out of control I had to change my job my life everything.I was hard for me to be totally differnt.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@William21001 I understand you on that my friend.
@thelme55 (13966)
• Germany
19 Sep
I think I am but my life is full of surprises which I canĀ“t control. I just make the best of my life as I can with the help of God.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@thelme55 You are right my friend and life is really full of surprises my friend.
@Kosgey (1214)
19 Sep
At some point I feel that some one powerful is in control if my life.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@Kosgey That's good to know my friend maybe a power that is higher than ourself my friend.
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@Hannihar (29558)
5 Feb
When I have things to deal with I am not in control of my life. Right now I feel I am back in control of my life.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
6 Feb
@Hannihar That's good to hear that you are in control of your life my friend.
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@Hannihar (29558)
6 Feb
@mandala100 Peter, I am not always when I have things to deal with then have to find people that can help me deal with them to get them done. When done I can go back to my life.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
8 Feb
@Hannihar That's good my friend.
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@wongchoiyee (7225)
• Malaysia
20 Sep
I am in control of my work, I earn money at home.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@wongchoiyee That's wonderful to hear my friend. And what's your home job my friend?
• Malaysia
21 Sep
@mandala100 doing survey, mylotting and other stuff.
@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
23 Sep
@wongchoiyee Ok my friend and see you soon.
@ridingbet (46858)
• Philippines
20 Sep
we create our own destinies.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@ridingbet You are right my friend life is what we makes of it as they say my friend.
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@kiran8 (15362)
• Mangalore, India
20 Sep
I have realized that one can never be in total control all the time at least that is my personal experience because certain things are beyond us.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@kiran8 That's quite true my friend.
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• Philippines
19 Sep
I'm in a struggle to control my life, but so far I'm improving.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
20 Sep
@Letranknight2015 I'm so glad to hear that my friend.
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@amadeo (61547)
• United States
19 Sep
yes I think so.Mike is also controlling my life to be safe
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@amadeo That's really wonderful to hear my friend.
@gilggg (2671)
• Israel
19 Sep
I try to control my life at least financially to support my family and me, and try to maintain my health with proper nutrition and exercise, and also tries to educate my children. But unfortunately there are many unexpected things that I do not control but every new situation I try to treat it under self-control.
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@mandala100 (35800)
• Hong Kong
19 Sep
@gilggg Thank you for your thought on the matter my friend.
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