Reconnecting with an old flame

@NJChicaa (115992)
United States
September 22, 2017 6:30pm CST
It isn't what it sounds like AT ALL! My first "love" was my boyfriend our senior year in high school and through part of our first year in college. He went to the Air Force Academy and has made a career out of working in the Air Force. Our breakup was not good and we lost touch back in college but I've always had a soft spot for him and have been proud of him for his service to the country. Anyway, the school I work at is the same one that we graduated from. They are doing a Wall of Honor for graduates who have served in the military. I felt like I needed to let him know so he could send in a picture to be displayed. I sent him a message through Facebook and, honestly, was 50/50 on whether he would even respond. He did--almost immediately. I gave him the information, got clarification about something for him, and sent that back to him as well. I don't think that we are going to be BFFs any time in the near future but it was interesting to be in contact with someone who used to mean a lot to me. I will be happy to see the Wall of Honor and to see his picture displayed in it.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
22 Sep 17
One of my very first FB friends was a guy I used to date in college. It is so funny because he got married for I think the first time..at maybe 58 or something..
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
23 Sep 17
@NJChicaa I have another not so good story about re connecting with a former friend on FB though. Let's just suffice it to say..he is in jail now!
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
23 Sep 17
@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
22 Sep 17
Oh this guy is married with 2 young kids. . . at least that's what I can tell from his profile pic.
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• United States
22 Sep 17
Oh this is simply wonderful Chicaa!! So glad he responded. Yes he deserves to be on that wall! Aw sweet the dear old flame.
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
22 Sep 17
Yes I'm glad he responded too.
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• United States
22 Sep 17
@NJChicaa Facebook is handy like that
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
23 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView absolutely!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Sep 17
That was nice of you to let him know and I'm glad he responded as well. =)
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
23 Sep 17
I immediately thought of him. Being suddenly separated from my first love by boot camp was a tough thing for me. I'll always remember him.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Sep 17
It is great that you messaged him to let him know and that he responded so quickly. Sometimes it is nice to reconnect with people from our past.
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
23 Sep 17
I don't think we will become buddies but I'm glad I was able to get the message to him
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