I am being held hostage. Please help me.

@TheHorse (51522)
Pleasant Hill, California
September 23, 2017 1:48pm CST
I am being helped hostage right now. Someone told me they'd be coming over this morning to buy a pair of Realistic Nova 4 vintage speakers I have on Craigslist. But he didn't say when he was coming. I just called him, but all I got was his message machine. I'd rather be by the pool, grading papers, but I'm being held hostage by my own politeness (and the desire to make a quick $80). Can you free me? Tell me I should just blow it off and go to the pool, papers in hand. Hell, I might even buy a 6-pack of beer. Help me! Help me! Have you ever been in a similar situation, where someone says they MIGHT come over, and you blow off other possible plans to accommodate them? Feh.
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@JolietJake (39719)
23 Sep
Tandy Corp stuff huh? I used to rely on the Shack for most of my electronic needs, but alas there isn't a store anywhere near me these days. Yes, I have been in that position, and ended up wasting time I could have used doing other things...especially 'wasted' when they never showed up.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Alas, it's a part of "cost of doing business" when you sell stuff on Craigslist. I think Radio Shack went teats up. Back in the day, Allied/Radio Shack was a major place to go to buy stereo gear.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Many old Allied and Realistic speakers were made by other companies and were actually pretty good!
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@JolietJake (39719)
23 Sep
@TheHorse I had a set of headphones from them when I was a college radio announcer that were pretty decent, I want to say the model was LV - 10 but I'm not sure, it's been so long ago (Edit) I was right...surprised I remembered that. Evidently they were made by Koss.
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@Mike197602 (13474)
• Worcester, England
23 Sep
I have sold things via the internet in the past. That'd include a near $10,000 motorbike and significantly greater value gold coins. The price to be paid, method of payment, place of payment was agreed beforehand. If they deviated from this I would never deal with them again and would leave factual bad feedback. In this case I'd respectfully suggest the fault is partly yours. Lock in a potential buyer to a specific time and place.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
I'm not going to worry about it too much. We'll find a time when we're both available. I'm going to hit the pool after lunch. This morning, I've been alternating between MyLot and papers on my bed. I had Keith Jarrett on the stereo, so life was good. With big ticket items like you describe, no flakes allowed.
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@Mike197602 (13474)
• Worcester, England
23 Sep
@TheHorse you're more easy going than me I sold via ebay a few years ago (7+) and had no issues things went smooth I sold my bike to someone in scotland through ebay...he paid a deposit and a transport cost and I hired a van and drove the bike up there and it was actually a very nice experience
@marlina (60723)
• Canada
23 Sep
@TheHorse Go to the pool.
@1creekgirl (8329)
• United States
23 Sep
I can't abide rude people like that. It's so frustrating waiting. I posted an item for sale on a local on line yard sale and a woman messaged me that she was interested. When I asked when she wanted to see it, she said she was just kidding. I told her she needed to get a life.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Just kidding? I've never met anyone like that. Maybe a bored teenager?
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• United States
23 Sep
@TheHorse No, I looked at her profile on FB and she's an adult. Maybe she was bored, but really? She has nothing better to do? That's why I told her she needed to get a life.
@sabtraversa (9810)
• Italy
23 Sep
The postmen or express couriers are always like that, you're lucky enough if they tell you the day. That's quite inconsiderate of his, he could have at least told the time of the day, more or less, so you can be free for a few hours.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
That's a good example. Comcast fix-it guys too. Fortunately, couriers generally leave my packages by the door.
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@Kandae11 (25590)
23 Sep
I won't spoil my plans for a 'might'. If it was a definite 'I'll be there'. then I might consider it.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
I can feel the water beckoning to me as I write. Think I'll eat something first, though.
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@celticeagle (114185)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Sep
I'd sure wouldn't do that again.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
I've done it before and will do it again.
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@celticeagle (114185)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Sep
@TheHorse ......you must enjoy playing phone tag then.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
@celticeagle It's just a part of life. I leave my cell phone at home most of the time. I enjoy my "alone time."
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@Courtlynn (47168)
• United States
23 Sep
Yes, all the time. But i stopped that this year. No more waiting bs
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Yep. Your own agenda comes first.
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@Courtlynn (47168)
• United States
23 Sep
@TheHorse yes. Especially when its the same people everytime for me
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
@Courtlynn Yeah, there are certain people I've simply severed ties with.
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@spiderdust (2710)
• San Jose, California
24 Sep
Did he ever show or contact you?
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
Nopee. No phone message or email.
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• San Jose, California
24 Sep
@TheHorse How rude! I hope you find another buyer.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
@spiderdust I hope so too. I'll renew the listing today.
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23 Sep
I had this situation many times and it always frustrated me. Until my husband told me “don’t wait for them, make them wait for you”.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Hmm. If he calls, I'll be in the pool. Cell not with me. His loss.
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23 Sep
@TheHorse exactly. Enjoy the life and let him worry about it.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
@thehousewife Almost done with my creamed spinach...off I go...
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@MALUSE (31670)
• Denmark
23 Sep
Who took this photo?
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
My Aunt's caretaker. Why?
@MALUSE (31670)
• Denmark
23 Sep
@TheHorse I thought it was your own pool and was wondering who took the photo as you seem to live alone with your guitars.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
@MALUSE That was taken at my Auntie's pool on Long Island. When I swim here, it's often with my 8-year-old buddy, who lives two doors down. I may slip out in secret now, as I really do want to get some papers done.
@nanette64 (13102)
• Fairfield, Texas
24 Sep
When I ran the animal shelter on my property @TheHorse , it was by appointment only. Some of those yabi-hoobers would show up whenever they felt like it instead. And then after me waiting for 3 or 4 hours they would show up and then not adopt an animal. Grrrrrrrrr
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
I guess some people don't understand the meaning of the word, "appointment." Sigh.
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@nanette64 (13102)
• Fairfield, Texas
24 Sep
@TheHorse Since you know me pretty well, you can imagine I was not a very happy camper.
• United States
24 Sep
I had someone offer me a price for a TV and never responded. -_- Hope you went on a swim!
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
I did. My young friend came along, so I didn't get many papers graded. But we had a good time.
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• United States
24 Sep
@TheHorse you can grade papers today glad you and your young friend came! Take advantage of pool weather. Did the guy end up coming or responding?
@allen0187 (26365)
• Philippines
24 Sep
I hate it when this happens. I say, you just go to the pool and chug your six-pack.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
Heh. I went with Gatorade. But at least I made it to the pool.
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@allen0187 (26365)
• Philippines
24 Sep
@TheHorse good for you!
@LeaPea2417 (14622)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Sep
Similar things have happened , yes.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
I went swimming (accompanied by my young friend) and managed to get five papers graded.
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@LeaPea2417 (14622)
• Toccoa, Georgia
24 Sep
@TheHorse That's good.
@Lucky15 (33714)
• Philippines
23 Sep
Waiting for someone and have to cancel some plans always have those
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
Not my favorite thing. But I've still had an enjoyable and productive day so far.
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@Lucky15 (33714)
• Philippines
24 Sep
@TheHorse Same here, not a fan of those "kind" :D
@just4him (89060)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Sep
I tend to trust and believe they will show up and am often disappointed. I hope the person shows.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
They did not. But I still had a good day. Off to play music now.
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@just4him (89060)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Sep
@TheHorse I'm sorry they never showed. I hope the music gig went well.
• United States
24 Sep
I have never sold anything on craigs list, hope it all works out for you.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
Thanks. We'll see what happens.
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@teamfreak16 (35171)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
24 Sep
Did you ever make it to the pool?
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 Sep
I did. But I was unable to sneak by my 8-year-old neighbor friend, so he joined me, and I only got 5 papers graded. I may try to do a couple before I head to bed.
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23 Sep
I wouldn't worry too much about it. If they don't care, why should you? That's just me though.
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
I'm off to the pool. Hakuna matata.
@UncleJoe (8071)
• Virginia Beach, Virginia
23 Sep
Unless arrangements for a set time has been made I don't tie mine up waiting. If they aren't serious enough to do that, why should I be?
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@TheHorse (51522)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Sep
Yep, fortunately, I graded a bunch of papers while waiting. Now, my day is mine again.