Bad News
@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
September 27, 2017 7:01am CST
I consider the news bad. The live- in partner of my student no longer came back to the hospital where she delivered their first baby. He told the girl he will find money for the hospital bill. She is supposed to be discharged this day. She is in agony this time. There is no love in the heart of the man. He is so irresponsible. What kind of human being is he?
The hospital bill is only P 7,000 ( $ 160 ) very small. The baby boy is healthy. I helped her discharged. She is very poor. She cried and hugged me. I visited her this morning in the hospital, so timely. I paid her hospital bill through my credit card, just a small money to save lives. She promised to pay me when she got a job someday, I just nodded my head to console her aching heart and troubled mind. I told her " forget the guy" You already have the treasure, your baby." She promised me.
I hope she could endure the pain. I drove her home, one hour drive. I might get some luck with a newly born on my car. I may share you photo with the baby and her young mom next days. We are on our University Intramrals 2017!Busy days! Thanks for reading. I have accomplished somethign wonderful this day.Thank you, Lord.
Hurray Life!
Image credit to Facebook
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27 responses
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
27 Sep 17
You`re such a nice person! God bless you
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788,thank you friend, it hurts me seeing someone in deep pain.
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
27 Sep 17
@cacay1 Yes and she`s lucky that you`re there to help
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 there were so many I have helped financially as long as not too big. Even to my relatives, I cannot refuse them.My brother in Saudi no longer receives a salary from his Saudi employer, very worried, no money.I send my brother money every three months interval just some dollars to have something to eat while waiting for his employer to pay him and his companions.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
God bless your hear my dear. That woman must have learned a good lesson. And she should be thankful for a good hearted person such as you. Now the man must just go to hell unless he changes his heart and comes back to do his obligation to the woman and his child.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@salonga, than you, friend, I hope my student would keep her promise not to accept that guy in her life for what the guy had shown was so obvious, he is very irresponsible.It was so easy for the guy to leave her and their infant.I am so sure the guy would regret especially if he learns that his live-in partner and the baby were released from the hospital.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@JustBhem , thank you, Bhem.My co-teachers donated at P500 each to fix the needs of my student. I shared them the story and how she was discharged through my help. Our program head donated 10,000 pesos. The sister of our program head in New York would like to send some items of clothing to the baby, toys and other things to make the young mom happy in her desperate moments.This poor girl is a resident scholar and famous for being so hardworking in the campus as a student assistant despite a scholar to have some amount for her food and other expenses in her education.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
27 Sep 17
You are so good and charitable to the girl Erly.
Praise you for your kindness in this life.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView , thank you, my dear friend, I felt pity for that poor girl and boy.Her classmates also extend their monetary help to their poor classmate. All of them will be the godfathers and godmothers to the boyvery nice feeling if help someone on the brink of an extreme pain.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
28 Sep 17
You were very kind to help her out and I hope that she manages to make a life for herself and her beautiful baby boy.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
28 Sep 17
@cacay1 It is amazing how falling for the wrong man can make dreams disappear.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@BelleStarr Very well said; many like to experiment how love-making is felt only to land to years of regret.All the young people do is shape their lives to become better citizens and fruitful to our society.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@just4him , Thank you so much, yes you are right. The guy is a loser. He abandoned his family in a very crucial moment of the lives of her live-in partner and their newly born baby boy. She was so grateful to me and promised to pay me someday hehehe. I never think about paying me.She needs months and years to improve her living with her son.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
That student of yours is sooo lucky to have you, sis. You're such a kindhearted person.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses , thanks, sis.If I won't help her, she may extend her stay and her bill will accumulate. I offered her my financial help.God provides, someday he will multiply my earnings.Thanks, Lord, my God. I love God, so I love humans, good and helpless humans worth to love.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses yes , sis.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Sep 17
I am glad that she had you there for her. Sounds like she will have a rough road ahead.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@Happy2BeMe You are right, she will have a temporal ugly life for she cannot dismiss her responsibility to her baby and herself.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@Happy2BeMe , you are right, she has a rough road ahead, and she is the one making her road rough. She should have only focused on her studies. I hope she would not be depressed; instead inspired for her baby is so cute and healthy looking.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
28 Sep 17
@cacay1 yes it would have been an easier road had she focused on her studies and education. Life will be more difficult with a baby but she will manage. It will take a lot of adjusting and big changes in her life.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep 17
@nangayo , I cannot blame the young guy, 19.I may blame the circumstance that drove him to do wrong without thinking of the effect of his wrong intention that is to make love to a girlfriend and to ignore the aftermath of it which is pregnancy on the part of the girl. The guy might be in a confused or horrifying mood. That amount is hard to find.It must be labored to produce it, and he has nothing.That is only my presumption. Thank you, my friend, for your nice share on this matter.God Bless.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep 17
@dodo19 ,thank you my friend. I was so affected with how the poor girl cried. It ached me so much, so without a second thought, I offered her my help even without something in return.I help her as my moral obligation to a human and to God.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
maybe the live-in partner is married?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep 17
@hereandthere , I do not know. I will ask my student once she reports to my class.I do not know when.It is almost final exam, October 16-21.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@sol_cee , she is a poor girl. She is also sweet and so polite to me in the classroom. She was the one I told here , that she would have many days absence in September because she would deliver her baby., so bad of her believing lies to her partner.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
29 Sep 17
you are like a mother to the lady, because you were there. but i hope her real mother will take care of her daughter and her grand kid as well.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Sep 17
@ridingbet , her mother did not know.She boarded in the city her mom far away almost one hour ride by car.They are so poor and helpless.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
@cacay1 really? therefore the action of the daughter is unacceptable because she did not use her head.