Bad News

@cacay1 (32078)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
September 27, 2017 7:01am CST
I consider the news bad. The live- in partner of my student no longer came back to the hospital where she delivered their first baby. He told the girl he will find money for the hospital bill. She is supposed to be discharged this day. She is in agony this time. There is no love in the heart of the man. He is so irresponsible. What kind of human being is he? The hospital bill is only P 7,000 ( $ 160 ) very small. The baby boy is healthy. I helped her discharged. She is very poor. She cried and hugged me. I visited her this morning in the hospital, so timely. I paid her hospital bill through my credit card, just a small money to save lives. She promised to pay me when she got a job someday, I just nodded my head to console her aching heart and troubled mind. I told her " forget the guy" You already have the treasure, your baby." She promised me. I hope she could endure the pain. I drove her home, one hour drive. I might get some luck with a newly born on my car. I may share you photo with the baby and her young mom next days. We are on our University Intramrals 2017!Busy days! Thanks for reading. I have accomplished somethign wonderful this day.Thank you, Lord. Hurray Life! Image credit to Facebook
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@m_audrey6788 (10749)
• Germany
27 Sep
You`re such a nice person! God bless you
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep
@m_audrey6788,thank you friend, it hurts me seeing someone in deep pain.
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• Germany
27 Sep
@cacay1 Yes and she`s lucky that you`re there to help
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep
@m_audrey6788 there were so many I have helped financially as long as not too big. Even to my relatives, I cannot refuse them.My brother in Saudi no longer receives a salary from his Saudi employer, very worried, no money.I send my brother money every three months interval just some dollars to have something to eat while waiting for his employer to pay him and his companions.
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@Lucky15 (33713)
• Philippines
27 Sep
Bless your kind heart si
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep
@Lucky15 , thank you, sis.
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@Kosgey (1224)
28 Sep
May God bless the work of your hands, you are such a good hearted person ,that child will live b e to a doctor like you one day.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Kosgey, Thank you so much. The poor girl really needs a kind heart and understanding. I hope the poor baby will become somebody someday.
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@Kosgey (1224)
28 Sep
@cacay1 be blessed, thank you
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@Kosgey you're welcome.
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@Corbin5 (78939)
• United States
27 Sep
You are so kind, my friend to help this mother and baby with that bill. You have accomplished something wonderful!!!
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Corbin5 , thank you, my friend. That was a sudden impulse when saw the young girl sobbed desperately. There were no relatives of her to assist her for they were all against of her relationship with her live-in partner.Besides her parents are so poor and sickly. Her relatives never care for they thought the guy can afford which is false. Her classmates were there feeding her and contributing some amount for her allowance.How nice if there are people to gather around and extend some needed help.
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@JustBhem (20756)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep
You are such a kind person. I hope she will find ways to help herself and her baby.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@JustBhem , thank you, Bhem.My co-teachers donated at P500 each to fix the needs of my student. I shared them the story and how she was discharged through my help. Our program head donated 10,000 pesos. The sister of our program head in New York would like to send some items of clothing to the baby, toys and other things to make the young mom happy in her desperate moments.This poor girl is a resident scholar and famous for being so hardworking in the campus as a student assistant despite a scholar to have some amount for her food and other expenses in her education.
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@JustBhem (20756)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
@cacay1 Oh, I feel sad for her but I know one day she will come up. And you are such a kind Teacher for her. One day she will reward you with something, probably a Godmother to her child.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@JustBhem thanks, friend, but I told her to have the young ones, her classmates to be the godmothers/godfathers of her baby.Many have the heart to help her now financially.
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@Shavkat (44871)
• Philippines
27 Sep
Great job, my friend
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Shavkat , thank you so much, my friend.How have you been?
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@Shavkat (44871)
• Philippines
28 Sep
@cacay1 I am fine, my friend. I am so lazy lately.lol
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Shavkat , aw, hehehe I am happy to know you are fine my friend.Don't be lazy
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
28 Sep
God bless your hear my dear. That woman must have learned a good lesson. And she should be thankful for a good hearted person such as you. Now the man must just go to hell unless he changes his heart and comes back to do his obligation to the woman and his child.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@salonga, than you, friend, I hope my student would keep her promise not to accept that guy in her life for what the guy had shown was so obvious, he is very irresponsible.It was so easy for the guy to leave her and their infant.I am so sure the guy would regret especially if he learns that his live-in partner and the baby were released from the hospital.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
28 Sep
@cacay1 How sad to note that many kids are born out of wedlock and were just abandoned by their fathers.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
29 Sep
@cacay1 This is a very sad reality.
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@just4him (89306)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep
Sad and good news at the same time. I'm glad you were able to help her. I know she must be very grateful. That guy is a loser!
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@just4him , Thank you so much, yes you are right. The guy is a loser. He abandoned his family in a very crucial moment of the lives of her live-in partner and their newly born baby boy. She was so grateful to me and promised to pay me someday hehehe. I never think about paying me.She needs months and years to improve her living with her son.
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@just4him (89306)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Sep
@cacay1 I hope she's able to do that and return to school so she will be able to get a good job to assist her with a good life for herself and her child.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@just4him She is a resident scholar and a student assistant. She has to strive more. She will go back to class second week of October. I told her classmates not to report next week, it would scare me.
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@shshiju (9194)
• Cochin, India
27 Sep
Thanks for the the update of your student. Happy to hear your kind heart. you helped the person who deserve it.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@shshiju ,thank you so much.The feeling is wonderful and accomplished if help someone in an extreme despiar.
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@shshiju (9194)
• Cochin, India
28 Sep
@cacay1 Yes. Think about ourselves . If we are helped by others in a danger position how we forget them in our entire life.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@shshiju hard to forget those who helped us, but there are also many who forget people who helped them in one way or another.
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• Philippines
28 Sep
That student of yours is sooo lucky to have you, sis. You're such a kindhearted person.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@rachz_kisses , thanks, sis.If I won't help her, she may extend her stay and her bill will accumulate. I offered her my financial help.God provides, someday he will multiply my earnings.Thanks, Lord, my God. I love God, so I love humans, good and helpless humans worth to love.
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• Philippines
30 Sep
@cacay1 True.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Sep
@rachz_kisses yes , sis.
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@kamzbd (342)
28 Sep
You did a good work, if possible then please show me the baby pictures, i want to see the baby.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@kamzbd , I will surely show the baby here with his mom. She might go back to my class first second week of October.
@kamzbd (342)
29 Sep
@cacay1 thank you
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@kamzbd you're welcome.
@nangayo (2166)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Sep
That is the best thing you have done. God will really bless you. Shame on the live in partner what a pity he ran away just when she needed him most. I hope he gets punished for this.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@nangayo , I cannot blame the young guy, 19.I may blame the circumstance that drove him to do wrong without thinking of the effect of his wrong intention that is to make love to a girlfriend and to ignore the aftermath of it which is pregnancy on the part of the girl. The guy might be in a confused or horrifying mood. That amount is hard to find.It must be labored to produce it, and he has nothing.That is only my presumption. Thank you, my friend, for your nice share on this matter.God Bless.
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@nangayo (2166)
• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Sep
@cacay1 Welcome
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@nangayo thanks and have a good night or day.
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@BelleStarr (31226)
• Portland, Connecticut
28 Sep
You were very kind to help her out and I hope that she manages to make a life for herself and her beautiful baby boy.
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@BelleStarr (31226)
• Portland, Connecticut
28 Sep
@cacay1 It is amazing how falling for the wrong man can make dreams disappear.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@BelleStarr Very well said; many like to experiment how love-making is felt only to land to years of regret.All the young people do is shape their lives to become better citizens and fruitful to our society.
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@Happy2BeMe (66914)
• Canada
27 Sep
I am glad that she had you there for her. Sounds like she will have a rough road ahead.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Happy2BeMe , you are right, she has a rough road ahead, and she is the one making her road rough. She should have only focused on her studies. I hope she would not be depressed; instead inspired for her baby is so cute and healthy looking.
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@Happy2BeMe (66914)
• Canada
28 Sep
@cacay1 yes it would have been an easier road had she focused on her studies and education. Life will be more difficult with a baby but she will manage. It will take a lot of adjusting and big changes in her life.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Happy2BeMe You are right, she will have a temporal ugly life for she cannot dismiss her responsibility to her baby and herself.
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• Lakewood, Colorado
27 Sep
You are so good and charitable to the girl Erly. Praise you for your kindness in this life.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@TiarasOceanView , thank you, my dear friend, I felt pity for that poor girl and boy.Her classmates also extend their monetary help to their poor classmate. All of them will be the godfathers and godmothers to the boyvery nice feeling if help someone on the brink of an extreme pain.
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• Lakewood, Colorado
28 Sep
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
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@Lizirazo (2519)
• United States
27 Sep
You are kind hearted. God bless you.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep
@Lizirazo , thanks, Liz, it is our moral obligation to help someone so problematic and depressed and financially broke.
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@Lizirazo (2519)
• United States
28 Sep
@cacay1 Yes that's true.
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@ridingbet (36485)
• Philippines
29 Sep
you are like a mother to the lady, because you were there. but i hope her real mother will take care of her daughter and her grand kid as well.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Sep
@ridingbet , her mother did not know.She boarded in the city her mom far away almost one hour ride by car.They are so poor and helpless.
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@ridingbet (36485)
• Philippines
30 Sep
@cacay1 really? therefore the action of the daughter is unacceptable because she did not use her head.
@SIMPLYD (74911)
• Philippines
28 Sep
You are very kind and helpful my friend. God will surely bless you more.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@SIMPLYD , thank you, friend. God sees our deeds and would judge us not by our religion, but by what we have done on earth. We really fear God.
@SIMPLYD (74911)
• Philippines
1 Oct
@cacay1 If only all people are into fearing God, then there would be lesser criminalities in our places.
@dodo19 (27759)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 Sep
That is so sad. I feel so sorry for this girl. You are such a good person for helping her out. You have such a good heart.
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@dodo19 ,thank you my friend. I was so affected with how the poor girl cried. It ached me so much, so without a second thought, I offered her my help even without something in return.I help her as my moral obligation to a human and to God.
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@hereandthere (23131)
• Philippines
28 Sep
maybe the live-in partner is married?
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@cacay1 (32078)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Sep
@hereandthere , I do not know. I will ask my student once she reports to my class.I do not know when.It is almost final exam, October 16-21.