Crying helps you ease the pain.

By Bhem
@JustBhem (24404)
Davao, Philippines
September 27, 2017 7:49pm CST
I was crying the whole night last night that is why I didn't stay here so long. I found out from a friend who sends me screenshots about another friend. I'm so sad and disappointed at the same time because of what she said about me. This friend I called USER 101. I don't know what I did for her to tell things like that. All I know I was a real friend to her. I helped her get what she wants, to get the boy of his dreams. Then after having what she wants, she ignores me as if I am waste now. I vent out all my pain in Facebook and I know she reads it. From now on, no more Miss Nice Bhem for someone who will use me for the sake of their own selfishness. I believe if someone goes away, another true friend will come.
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@ridingbet (38927)
• Philippines
28 Sep
i am sorry you are experiencing the pain of being betrayed by a friend. maybe she is not meant to be a friend to yu. if i were you, i will burn the bridge that connects me to her. although it is painful, at least you knew her real personality now. it should never be a loss if you lose a 'friend' as mean as her. if one goes, a dozen-fold will come. cheer up, you are beautiful.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Thanks, my friend. Now I have puffy eyes because of crying last night.
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@ridingbet (38927)
• Philippines
29 Sep
@JustBhem i hope you won't rub your eyes vigorously when you cry, so you won't have puffy eyelids.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
@ridingbet I will do that, that is why I always have puffy eyes.
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@Courtlynn (54330)
• United States
28 Sep
That's terrible, but shows you don't need her as a friend.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
I realize that now Courtney. Thanks.
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@Courtlynn (54330)
• United States
28 Sep
@JustBhem yes. Sometimes it takes things like this to realize it. Ive been through it.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
@Courtlynn It takes time to figured out that a friend is not a friend.
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@dodoazo (12237)
• Philippines
28 Sep
Sorry to hear that. But remember what the law of nature says, "what goes up. It goes down."
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Thanks, I will be better later.
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@kobesbuddy (23407)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Sep
Gosh, that really hurts. It's no wonder you are crying, about this betrayal of friendship.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
It's awful, you did something for a friend and it turned out I was betrayed.
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@kobesbuddy (23407)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Sep
@JustBhem Just chock this us as a bad experience, then move forward in your life.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
@kobesbuddy And I will do that. Thanks for the advice.
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@sabtraversa (9928)
• Italy
28 Sep
Whoa! Sorry to hear, but I guess it's better to know the truth. The good you do, comes back to you. The evil you do, remains with you. Yes, a better friend will come someday.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Yeah, I guess she was never a friend for me.
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@Hatley (161729)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep
she waat I call fair weaher fr iend when you need htem they disaear a he frs chguikktg day they are users better off with real frilends not those kindremembert the saying 'what goes arund comes around she will get hers for being mean
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Karma will have its way with her. Thanks.
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@vsai2008 (7583)
• India
28 Sep
I have been there, I know it hurts a lot, I hope you get over it soon
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
And you know the feeling, right? Yeah, I hope it's too soon.
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@m_audrey6788 (12672)
• Germany
28 Sep
So sad for you I hope you`re feeling much better now after all, I`m sure there are still good friends around you since you`re a good person
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
I am a bit okay. Thanks.
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• Germany
28 Sep
@JustBhem I`m sure there is a good reason for your friend at the moment of her new life adjusting
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
@m_audrey6788 I think so, and should I consider that? What do you think?
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@Ganma7 (2521)
28 Sep
So sorry. We all go through these awful hurts. We learn from them. Feel better.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Yes, I confronted her earlier. And still, she is not being honest.
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@Ganma7 (2521)
28 Sep
@JustBhem Seems like she is not a friend. Sorry
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
@Ganma7 Exactly my thoughts about her.
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@lovebuglena (3523)
• United States
28 Sep
Being betrayed by a friend is definitely heartbreaking. Had that happen to me. Real friends would never do that to us. Hope you feel better and things turn around. In some way crying helps ease the pain, but at the same time it doesn't make problems go away. I cry a lot for different reasons. And that doesn't really change anything. The things that cause me to cry still remain.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
And I still don't know why she did that. After I helped her, she just eventually in no words to me. And always tell lies.
@prashu228 (23294)
• India
28 Sep
So sorry. I agree such friends are not needed
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
Thanks.
@dodo19 (28397)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 Sep
That is really awful. I'm really sorry you had to go through this. You definitely deserve better.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
Yeah, I will stick to those who stay.
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@wongchoiyee (6618)
• Malaysia
28 Sep
I am sorry you have to deal with this people who are mean. Yes true friend will come one day.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
I guess I will stick to those who accepted me for who I am. Thanks.
@rubyriaz007 (2804)
• India
28 Sep
very true...when we get upset ,we must definitely cry,then only we will get relief. If we don't cry its not good..
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
Somehow it helps us to feel better. I do that most of the time.
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• Changsha, China
28 Sep
Oh, I also had been went through this kind of feelings. At first I was crying, then I became angry, because I was betrayed three times! It's ridiculous. I let this happened again and again just because of my 'forgiveness', uh, in the end, who cares your heartbreaking? After confirming she probably not my real friend, I delated her cell phone number, and masked all contact way with her, just not to see or hear her again. She called me several times and I ignored her, coz I knew she would never contact unless she needed my help. Hope you feel better soon, life is what you make it. Do sth new to be happy.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep
Yeah, and the feeling is awful, right? I will get over with this soon.
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@KrauseHome (33746)
• United States
28 Sep
Sad that this had to happen to you. I have ran into people like this in my lifetime. Then the others that know that person believe them until the day when it probably ends up happening to them. People like that must be lonely to hurt others like this.
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• Philippines
28 Sep
Forgive her and move on with your life, don't let her have a hang on you by being bitter. At least that's what I learned about the forgiving sermon. But never in a anyway interact with her again. I believe friend comes and goes and clearly I didn't see any merits in the friendship that benefits you at all. she was indeed a user.
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@aureliah (5702)
28 Sep
Don't worry. We all have "friends" like those. Its good that you discover to avoid worse scenarios in future.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
Yeah, and took so many years for me find out. Thanks.
@aureliah (5702)
29 Sep
@JustBhem Sorry about that. I can imagine how it feels.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
@aureliah And the best way to get rid of these friend sucking is ignored them.
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@poehere (17801)
• French Polynesia
28 Sep
That is truely horrible and you don't need friends like this. You are too sweet and kind to have this so called friend do that to you.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
Or maybe I am too gullible. I trust them that they won't hurt me.
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@poehere (17801)
• French Polynesia
29 Sep
@JustBhem You are just too sweet that is all.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
@poehere I am sweet when it comes to people who are very dear to me. That is why no matter what they did to me, I can still forgive them but never forget what they've done.
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@sprite1950 (1638)
• Corsham, England
28 Sep
Unfortunately there are people in this world who will use you. She was never your friend if she could treat you that way.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
And that I know. It is hard to let the friendship go away. But I think I will give it a rest.
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• Corsham, England
29 Sep
@JustBhem Maybe one day she will apologise and realise what a good friend you are and you might be able to forgive her.
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@JustBhem (24404)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep
@sprite1950 I hope one day she will say sorry to me.
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