The villain plays the victim so well
By solxee
@sol_cee (38223)
Philippines
September 30, 2017 12:51am CST
I have a group chat on FB Messenger with my classmates in high school. Every now and then, members send pictures of their new cars or their new-born babies. Most often than not, they gossip about our classmates’ posted pictures on FB and laugh about it. They haven’t grown even a bit, sad to say, despite the many years after graduation. They are still immature bullies.
Yesterday, one of my classmates posted a picture of him and his new boyfriend on FB. He is gay, proud of it and is flaunting it. His new bf is somewhat younger than him but I didn’t mind. Well, a member of the group chat dragged the couple’s picture and posted it there for others to see. The bullies feasted. Some labelled my gay classmate as a ‘corrupting minor’, and others mentioned about ‘child trafficking’. He tried to defend himself but what do you expect from them losers? They are deaf to their victim’s pleadings. As a result, he deleted the picture from his FB page. The bullies won.
I’m still considering whether to leave the group chat or not.
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23 responses
@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
I don't know what you decided, but I would leave the group immediately. I can't stand a toxic environment like that, offline or online.
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 17
@sol_cee I've done that with a couple of my Whatsapp groups as well
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
Our high school batch created this group chat on fb and I saw the same thing you did. I left the group.
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
5 Oct 17
That group sounds awful! I would leave it.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Oct 17
Our HS batch has a chat group also. Usually, those who are active there are those wives married to rich men. They would talk about what country to visit. I just would always see what they are talking about. Funny, how they flaunt their richness.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
it's the gossiping behind your back and sharing your stuff with others without your knowledge that made me wary of it.
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@RasmaSandra (73199)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Sep 17
I think you should definitely leave the chat. These are terribly immature people and they do not care about anyone's feelings.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 Oct 17
i wonder if those cyberbullies have no skeletons in their closets?
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
1 Oct 17
Good thing he just deleted his picture. Your schoolmates act like children up to now! They're not a good friends online.
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@AliCanary (3041)
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1 Oct 17
Wow, I'm surprised HE didn't leave the chat. I don't know whether I would leave or just stay and yell at everyone for being jerks, lol
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
5 Oct 17
Wow! if that is what's happening in your group, it's not worth your time hanging around there then.. ...
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
30 Sep 17
Where is this group..I will slaughter them with my tongue of an adder snake lol Sherlocked - San..
To heck with those mean bullies..
@just4him (305432)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Oct 17
That's sad that people would bully him for being gay.
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
4 Oct 17
I hate big groups because of this type of things too.
Enjoy my small closed circle in WhatsApp different groups
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
3 Oct 17
That's too bad. Maybe you could make a new group chat w/o the bullies