House of Heartache
By NerdGirlUSA
@starflye78 (260)
Daytona Beach, Florida
October 1, 2017 7:01pm CST
I live with four other people. Two of them were a couple until a month ago, one of them is a guy that I almost dated and that the ex of the aforementioned did date, and the last is the mother of the guy mentioned in the first couple. Post breakup, she moved upstairs. We have four bedrooms. And even though this couple was together for eleven years, and the last three of them were apparently quite unhappy, somehow being the only other female in the house, I began to be accused of things that I would never do. I don't play with other people's toys. And this girl was my best friend. After the breakup, when she turned psycho, somehow he and I formed a bond. And then we REALLY bonded. And then I caught feelings. And last night during the tattoo party, she came to me crying, asking me to back off. Because, see, she thinks they are still working on things. And there is no actual relationship between he and I, merely an unconventional friendship. And all she could say was that it is killing her to see that he is happy when I am around and not when she is. So, mylotters, there is the reason that the tattoo party ended so abruptly. To be continued, as they say. The tattoo artist is the other male housemate. There is so much more to this story, but I'll wait for your comments for now...
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@GardenGerty (157546)
• United States
2 Oct 17
Well my head is spinning, and that sounds like it is awfully tense in your household.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 17
@starflye78 yours i s a hyman situation we can relate to which makes discussions more
appealing ,more human
@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Oct 17
the relief in being able to share my story on here is immense. this is a small town, so of course i can't tell anyone else. and i've gotten more comments in ten minutes than any discussion has gotten in an entire day in my young mylot career!
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@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Oct 17
not married. and financially none of us can afford to move. believe me i want out of this house as quickly as possible. and i want to take him with me, but only time will tell...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 17
@starflye78 good luck sounds like you are really in love wow
@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Oct 17
@Hatley I think I just might be. But he keeps telling me that maybe I just don't know how to be alone. And he is my best friend, and we both just got out of very long,very toxic relationships. Labels cause complications, especially when it comes to a relationship that doesn't fit into any traditional categories. And it's still a secret from everyone except you mylotters. I mean, all "the guys" know we've been sleeping together, but that's just a man thing and he makes jokes about it. She keeps saying she's leaving, and he seems to think that once she does and it is no longer a fight to spend time around eachother that the magic will be gone. I disagree. And currently, she is screaming at the top of her lungs that we threw away all her silverware. Unbelievable...
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 17
These relationships is very complicated like drama.
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@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Oct 17
4 bedrooms. Mother and her boyfriend have one, the couple is split, each has one, I have a bedroom and we have two couches that hold people lol.
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@luisadannointed (4171)
• Philippines
2 Oct 17
My concern is.. Why living with people who are couples and with boys. I know that we are in the modern world. But still same scenario dont change at all... It is better to live alone or be with girls or family. Well it is just a suggestion I hope you dont get mad. Emotions is something we should fight. And temptation no matter how innocent we are... We should always run away from it.
@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Oct 17
She just sent him a text ( out stairs are terrible! I do the same thing!) telling him she is leaving. I know it sounds crass, but I hope she means it this time. I came into this as a friend, bc it tore me up to see him hurting like that. Her words cut deep, she has said some of the most hateful things I have ever heard in my life. To both of us. For instance, to me, "you are nothing but trash, and you will never be anything but trash. I'm sorry I told Mitch ( my ex) I would get rid of his garbage. You're going to die in a dumpster with the rest of the trash and nobody will care. Nobody will come looking for you. "
