myLot is the one place where I share almost everything, but I still hold some things back

It's difficult because sometimes places like this are a person's only real outlet, but that doesn't mean it's the right place to share every single thought and feeling

@LilyBeBack Okay, I get what your saying. Thanks for going into more detail. There are times that I am a peace keeper because that is important to me, and something God has blessed me with-My gift I guess you could say. However, like everyone else there are certain things that bother me...especially when it comes to children or animals. Sometimes I voice it without holding back and I do regret it.

@LovingMyBabies That's definitely one of your gifts, you're one of the people I've learned from

It's not really about having something to hide, it's more to do with choosing what's appropriate. For example I know how kind you are, so there has to have been a time when you've chosen to hold something back just in case it offends or upsets someone - not saying that you think mean or offensive things, but that sometimes people get upset or offended because they've had a bad day or whatever, and they're feeling defensive for whatever reason, and if you can see that coming then I'm sure you'd hold back rather than be a catalyst for unnecessary tension But I'm not saying that people should just keep quiet to keep the peace, that's not my point either, it's a decision we make individually on a case by case basis

@LilyBeBack Cool, even if its like my day going, opinion in anything, what I saw interesting today, etc?

maybe you can ask/send a pm to mylot admin about the topic you want to write about

I think as long as you have a genuine interest in your topics and you don't break the rules then you'll be fine

Yeah yeah, everybody knows you're making a list, checking it twice...

Yeah I used to get into a lot of arguments and it was exhausting!

Another thing I've learned, which is obvious in hindsight, is that I can always add information later but I can't take back what I've already said

@LilyBeBack yes,this is my first and only internet site where I interact and after a few days someone who has now become a friend said not to reveal too much

@responsiveme not to reveal too much because?

@TiarasOceanView

STOP TRYING TO FIND OUT ALL MY SECRETS Ahem, I mean, hello

@LilyBeBack I already knows all your secrets My Lovely ahahah

I used to say whatever I wanted, but thankfully I've grown up a bit

@LilyBeBack As we grow some of us do learn we have to filter what we say.

Every group needs at least one person like you Preferably several

I'm drunk right now, WHATCHYOUGUNNADOABOUTIT??!! How you doing? This is the first I've seen of you since my most recent return

@Mike197602 Good luck with your job hunt We are, thanks - he's almost as cheeky as he looks

@LilyBeBack I'm ok thanks. Not here as much as I was because of work but I'm looking for a new job at the moment so maybe if I'm successful I'll be here more Hope you and your son are doing well.

THE TRUTH, MAN, YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!

It's difficult but worth it!

@LilyBeBack

Welcome to mylot How long have you been waiting? I don't think it will be an issue but I'm not sure so you might be better off asking @JolietJake

@JolietJake really? I thought I need to verify my email first, until now I'm still waiting for the confirmation. but still no message from myLot. Thank you.

I can understand them wondering if the posts can be seen, but I can't understand why they would think it's unfair If we don't want people from real life to know it's us, we can use fake names and pictures

Just about

Me too, I used to just say everything but I keep more quiet now

@LilyBeBack LilyLoretta, maybe that is the best way to be.