Cousin blocks me on Facebook.

@JustBhem (42989)
Davao, Philippines
October 7, 2017 11:00am CST
I just found out that one of my closest cousin blocks me on Facebook and I don't know why. The last time we have a conversation is when she asked me to have her phone connected to my Wifi which I told her to bring her phone down so that I will be the one to enter my password. But I also told her that refrain from youtube because it will slow down my connection especially when I am having my work. But she never went to me. Since then she never talks to me, if we see each other she won't approach me. I wonder really why in what ways she was upset. Then I noticed just recently, I can no longer see her in my friend's list. But If I use the boyfriend's account I can see her account. That means she blocks me. Her Father is my Mother's Brother so we are the first cousin and they live upstairs. Now she is in Hong Kong now. Do you experience this kind with your cousin or someone close to you? Photo grab from Google.com.
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@Kandae11 (40370)
7 Oct 17
When she returns from Hong Kong ask her what the problem is.
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@vandana7 (67683)
• India
7 Oct 17
Exactly. That could be accidental.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
It will take a long time for me to ask her that.
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@cacay1 (33203)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@Kandae11 it seems her hatred did not subside.She is a hater lie my neighbor.
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@YesWay (3447)
8 Oct 17
This is strange. I can't believe she hasn't said anything to you
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Yeah, and I don't know which of the conversation is upsetting to her. She is not like that.
@YesWay (3447)
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem Could you maybe go and speak to her face to face and find out
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@YesWay I heard from her Father she is with her Japanese husband in Hong Kong.
@allen0187 (33914)
• Philippines
7 Oct 17
Perhaps she blocked you by accident. Best to have this sorted out and talk to her when she gets back from Hong Kong.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
I think she blocked me in purpose. It will take awhile to process that. Unlike here on Mylot, Block button is under send a message, while the block option on Facebook is under settings. So I doubt it's accident.
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@allen0187 (33914)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem really up to you if you still want to ask here about it or if you just want to drop the matter altogether.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@allen0187 I will probably leave it that way. One thing I know I didn't do anything for her. I know one day she will talk to me. But for the meantime, I will let her have the freedom to do that.
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@dragon54u (31637)
• United States
7 Oct 17
Maybe she was upset that you would not trust her with your password. People get upset about the smallest things these days! I hope your relationship gets back to normal!
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
But that is understandable, I told her that all my password are the same with my account. Of course, I don't trust anyone about that.
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@YesWay (3447)
8 Oct 17
This is true. Some people are really sensitive
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@tech40 (9748)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
Did you asked her politely not to use youtube? Maybe that scenario triggered her pride..
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
But she knows about it. That time I have a job, I worked as a Lead Agent and my time of work is from 9 pm to 3 am. And I know she used her phone for her kids to watch youtube. That will surely slow down my connection. She knows about it.
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@tech40 (9748)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem Lead agent? That post is a cc?
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@tech40 CC? As in Call Center? Yes.
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@Hannihar (42168)
8 Oct 17
Is there someone you can ask why she blocked you? No, I have not experienced it so cannot help you out.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
I ask her sister and even her sister didn't know why. They never talk.
@Hannihar (42168)
9 Oct 17
@JustBhem I would say it is her loss that she did that to you. Maybe you may find out someday why.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Oct 17
@Hannihar Yeah, I', still hoping to find that out someday.
@Courtlynn (55302)
• United States
7 Oct 17
Sorry that happened, seems strange.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Yeah, seem so strange at all when I don't the reason behind it.
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@Courtlynn (55302)
• United States
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem lots of times, we don't know why people do things. Just brush it off and not worry about it. She obviously doesnt care. Why should you.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@Courtlynn I think you are right about it. She doesn't care at all about how I will feel about it.
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@thelme55 (15059)
• Germany
7 Oct 17
Yes, I have experienced that. My niece had blocked me many times. One reason she blocked me was when I told her to ask permission if she wanted to use my photos and make it her own in fb. Every time she blocked me, I didn't know that until she was adding me as a friend in fb again. Many times I have accepted her friends request but last time, I didn't. It suites her.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
Oh, why she uses your photo and not asking you for permission?
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@thelme55 (15059)
• Germany
7 Oct 17
@JustBhem maybe she just thought no need to ask auntie.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@thelme55 Whenever I grab photos to my Aunt, I always ask them. In case.
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• Bucharest, Romania
8 Oct 17
I think this is weird indeed. I also had a colleague in college that was a good friend of mine but since we ended college and part ways, he stopped any kind of connection with me and stopped replying to me on facebook.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Well, maybe, in that case, he was so busy to attend to a social interaction.
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• Bucharest, Romania
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem no, he was still active on facebook but he did not want to reply to my messages anymore.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Oct 17
@Cristi_Ichim Do you have a heated arguments before?
@ridingbet (59601)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
it is her loss for blocking a good cousin like you. but since you are family, maybe some other day, she will talk to you again
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Yeah and for sure I didn't do anything to make her upset and I am just being honest.
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@ridingbet (59601)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem in time, maybe the damage will be repaired.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@ridingbet Yes, of course. In time.
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@Chibi05 (61)
7 Oct 17
Never faced a block, but I have blocked many people on Facebook. When people are not relevant in your life and they still pester you to be visible online as friends, I just block them. :D But yeah, I had my bro's friend's wife unfriend me and the reason being, her husband and my bro had a conflict. That was lame and like everyone else said, it's her loss and not mine. :D
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Yes, it's too lame. Why she unfriend you when you are not the one has a conflict with your Brother. I think we are in the same situation.
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem yeah, sometimes I think all of us react unnecessarily. Social media is one thing which is driving a lot of relationships now a days. So unfriending me probably might have proved some point.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@Chibi05 Some point that they might not like what we post, or they get irritated by our post or our selfie. One of the reason.
@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Oct 17
i know the feeling my family did the same thing but i consider it their loss
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
And I am thinking the way too. It's their lost.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Oct 17
@JustBhem yes it is.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
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@nomus24g (24938)
• India
7 Oct 17
Big deal, just dont bother....I have been blocked by so many, but then offline I gel along with them normally...
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
Where? Here or on a Social Media platform?
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@nomus24g (24938)
• India
7 Oct 17
@JustBhem yes, they blocked me online (on FB/Twitter) but are in normal terms offline...
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@nomus24g I wonder why is that so?
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Oct 17
I blocked a cousin for being the social justice warrior trying to fight the existence of snuff films by showing them to everyone. The thumb nails is enough to traumatize you. I do not want to see actual murder footage on my timeline. I also blocked a cousin for being a fantard of a politician. A cousin never blocked me The only people who blocked me at Facebook are the women I had one night stand with from Tinder
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
Hahaha. And what is a different story because you are the one end up blocking them. I never block people on Facebook no matter who they are, I let them the one who block me.
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Oct 17
@JustBhem I am sure you will block a cousin too if you will see a severed head on a thumbnail of a video they commented on.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker Haha, and I haven't seen yet, maybe later. Lol.
@dodoazo (21403)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
I haven't yet. But in my case, I have more than 30s friends and followers in the Facebook.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Oh, few true friends I guess.
@TheHorse (72440)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Oct 17
I'm in touch with a couple of my first cousins, but most are self-absorbed enough that I don't really hear from them. Facebook turns adults into Middle Schoolers sometimes.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
I agree, small thinking.
@cacay1 (33203)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Oct 17
She was an inconsiderate cousin. You are right, if someone is connecting our wi fi it gets slower and our task is affected.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
I think she got offended when I told her not to play youtube.
@parpande (673)
• Bangalore, India
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem I had blocked one of my 1st cousin for the reason I could not resist. While I got married ,after a few days on my behalf my wife attended a family function where she acquainted this cousin. The guy told her abt me a few words as if he is jealous of me ( even I dont know why) . This really made me angry and decided to block that fellow , it`s been 2 years now I had not seen him.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
That sucks right? The first cousin feels bad about you. When you didn't do anything to them.
@kepweng (18623)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
8 Oct 17
maybe you annoyed here or you got a small fight or jealousness thats what the reason i think??
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
Nope. That was the last conversation I had with her. And I didn't do anything to her or that make her offended.
@ourlot (993)
7 Oct 17
Don't take it too personally. Sometimes Facebook gets things wrong, and you get blocked by accident. Or the person was trying to block someone else and blocked you.
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@JustBhem (42989)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
She blocked me for one reason, I guess. Is not just accidental because it will take a lot of processes before you block someone.
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