Oct 8- Short Sighted

@peachpurple (12370)
Malaysia
October 7, 2017 7:35pm CST
My hubby used to say that he is short sighted. I thought that he meant that he couldn't see near but he could see far. I am the opposite, I couldn't see far but I could see near. Nope, he doesn't meant the real fact of eye vision. He was referring to unable to see the "real face" of the people around him. The people refers to the family members, his siblings whom he had trusted most were the ones who had "back stabbed" and used him. We can't see the real face of the love ones who had betrayed or did bad things behind our back but we could see the bad things that people ( strangers or friends ) did to us. Very often, we are short sighted when we trusted too much of our love ones who are in fact were the ones who had hurt us the most. Betrayal of trust. Do you agree to this short sighted fact? my photo: my son's toy
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@Ithink (10777)
• United States
8 Oct
I totally agree with this assessment. I had a hard time with the same with family and my BF that was like a sister, hence family. Not what I thought some were that is for sure.
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
9 Oct
indeed, it is difficult to accept the fact that own family members would hurt you twice as much .
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@Ithink (10777)
• United States
9 Oct
@peachpurple Exactly and then they wonder why you don't trust.
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
10 Oct
@Ithink can't blame us for not trusting, right?
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@shaggin (36364)
• United States
8 Oct
I had never heard that saying meaning that before interesting.
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
9 Oct
yeah, but come to think of it, the phrase does make some sense
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@shaggin (36364)
• United States
10 Oct
@peachpurple yep :) creative on his part I think
@sol_cee (14334)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
8 Oct
When trust is broken by family members, it’s double the pain.
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
9 Oct
I agree with you, the trust is fragile, once broken it is hard to amend it, even though flesh and blood
@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct
I still can see near or far. My vision is 50/50 and I don't know now. I haven't check my eyes yet.
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
9 Oct
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@tech40 (9221)
• Philippines
8 Oct
I guess I can be a far sighted person but I can be a short sighted too.. haha
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
9 Oct
far sighted for eyesight? Short sighted for judging family members?
@kepweng (11130)
8 Oct
i tested that im colored blind beacuase i cannot read ishihara test maybe he needs to wear eye glass or reading glass?
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@peachpurple (12370)
• Malaysia
8 Oct
he has a reading glass and a magnifying glass too
@prashu228 (25821)
• India
9 Oct
Yes, that's true. Lately i have realized that