Friendship over love?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 15, 2017 4:23pm CST
This is what happened to us by one of my closest friends. He chose love over our friendship. Actually, I don't mind at all if that's what makes her happy. What vexes me is the fact she lied to me and dump me real fast. And what's pisses me off is she still won't accept that he talks to behind my back.
I understand her about how she really likes the guy, and I know how much he wants it. But at least she should be honest with me. And I'm not even trying to steal that moment from her.
And because of her, I decided to close my door to anyone that involves her. I know that's what she wants. She wants to be the center of everything because that guy friend will marry her and soon they will have their baby. She planned this all along. Her desperation and manipulating the situation makes her a lot confident.
And for what she did to me. I know one day Karma will hit her big time.
She may have new friends now because she wants to start a new.
And the reality that old friends knew who she is will never fade.
Do you accept this kind of behavior? 
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12 responses
@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
16 Oct 17
@JustBhem I mean I cut her off from my life and not do anything with her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 17
@allen0187
I guess I will do that from now on.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Oct 17
Its sad but It's normally happening @JustBhem. People in love temporarily lost its sanity. A lot of stories you will heard the worst like giving up their own family, friendhip and disobeying their parents over love.
Love can make or break you. Its all depends to the person how to balance everything.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
16 Oct 17
@JustBhem Did you asked her why? maybe she has a deep reason. because if there's none why not to tell it to you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 17
@cttolledo
I read the message she sent my other friend.
My other friend sends all the screenshot to me.
She said in the message - she is better than me. She doesn't like to talk to me because she thinks I am against her.
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
15 Oct 17
I`m kind of confused about what your friend did to you You mean that she said something bad about you to her boyfriend?
You mean that she said something bad about you to her boyfriend? 1 person likes this
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Oct 17
@JustBhem Oh my, That could be very disappointing and sad as she was once your best friend 
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788
Yeah, that is why it makes me think what did I do wrong for her.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Oct 17
if a friend closes her doors to me, she will be considered a non-entity to me, now and forever.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 17
@ridingbet
Hahaha. Let me light it up and burn. Lol
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
@JustBhem _I am surprise she was able to hide her real feelings about you for 8 long years without you having an inkling about it. Your feelings of betrayal and anger is understandable. Best you move on with your life and put her in your past.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Oct 17
She talks about me behind my back telling another friend how lame I was and that she doesn't want to have a conversation with me. She lied about her friendship towards me when in fact I was the one who helped her get her guy of his dreams. For 8 long years, I was the one who talks to her during her sad and alone time until morning. I was the one who gets her guy of her dreams. In short, I am their bridge. And after getting what she wants - she never messages me anymore, until I found out she is living with our guy friend and doesn't want our guy friend to mingle with us anymore. She doesn't want to see me, she always has excuses. Until a friend told me she talks a lot about me behind my back.
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 17
No, I will give up the friendship, this is not a real friend at all.
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@LeaPea2417 (36438)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Oct 17
That is not good when people act that way.
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@Lignitecityabishek96 (7110)
• Cuddalore, India
18 Oct 17
Friendship is only great
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@mikaelajuliet (638)
• Boston, Massachusetts
22 Oct 17
sounds like a bad friend to me!
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