Question of The Day- Marriage, Jobs, Relationship

By DB
@dgobucks226 (34356)
October 17, 2017 10:19am CST
If you had to make a list of jobs which put a strain on a marriage, or make it difficult to maintain a relationship, what professions/jobs would you choose? Why did you make that choice? Photo- Google images/123RF.com
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Oct 17
A truck driver, because being apart so much. A bar tender because of the floozies . And a stripper well because everyone has done seen all your junk.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
17 Oct 17
All good picks! Lots of temptations and late night hours with the last two.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Oct 17
I would love to be an Broadway player.Dancing my choice
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 17
I think any job that may put a person in jeopardy could cause problems in a marriage. Ones that have a lot of responsibility too. Taking on too much responsibility can cause strain in any relationship.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 ......They take their mate for granted and think everything will be okay and it isn't.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
Yes, very good points! And many people have given those reasons in citing occupations that strain marriage or relationships.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
@celticeagle Taking one for granted causes a lot of friction for sure! No one likes to be unappreciated.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 17
Doctors, I know many who are divorced, they have too many occasions and temptations.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 Especially touching nice women that they visit just because their profession.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
@LadyDuck There is something to that, even though they are suppose to be professional
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
Many hours away from family treating patients can strain a marriage or relationship.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
19 Oct 17
Definitely Police officers, their spouses never know if they will return home safely each time and the hours are terrible.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
19 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 , yes. It is, thank you. I hope everything is going well for you too.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
19 Oct 17
Very true "C." Two major reasons for the marriage strain Hope everything is going well today for you
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
19 Oct 17
@bluesa Yes, a great week so far. Terrific weather, the pumpkins came out great and I will post a picture of them next week. I am keeping them inside for now because the squirrels will pick them apart.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 17
Medical - doctors, surgeons, police officers, politicians Doctors and surgeons are on call Police officers is a high risk occupation leaving orphans and widows if shot in the line of duty Politicians are motivated by their passion for politics and doing whatever it takes to get the vote - family falls by the wayside.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 Now you've mentioned a lot of names that I didn't know had fidelity issues. I knew about two of them.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
17 Oct 17
All excellent examples. Dangerous jobs like policeman have to put strain and worry on any marriage. Doctors with long hours can make relationships strained very true. And politicians, with an all consuming job in addition to infidelity (see Clinton). Also Schwarzenegger, Sanford, Edwards, Spitzer, Giuliani, McGreevey and, depending on your definition of unfaithful, Weiner.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
@just4him Politics is a hard business on marriages it seems
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
17 Oct 17
The top of my list would be police officers. Not only do they have a very dangerous job,but, they're also on call at any time of day or night. I would also add physicians to the list, the long hours the stress and also being on call at any time.there's an emergency.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 Thanks DB Actually anyone who needs to work for long hours or is away for a long period of time can cause a lot of resentment, stress and hurt feelings in any relationship
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
19 Oct 17
@jujunme So very true jujunme
@dgobucks226 (34356)
17 Oct 17
Yes the hours I am sure can cause issues. And the difficulty of their job makes it difficult to talk to their spouse about their day. Physicians, a lot of stress definitely. Very good examples.
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
17 Oct 17
A pilot, flight attendant, or long-haul truck driver due to being away from home so much.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
17 Oct 17
Yes, definitely jobs which take time away from family strains a marriage. Good ones!!!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Oct 17
Probably a stewardess because that means I need to go to some places while he is here. Or a Doctor, sometimes doesn't have time.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
17 Oct 17
Yep, I agree. Other responders also agreed with you examples. Thanks for the input
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 You are welcome.
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@YesWay (3674)
18 Oct 17
Police officers The shift work plus the actual work makes it very difficult to be in a relationship
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@YesWay (3674)
19 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 Thank you for posing such an interesting question
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
19 Oct 17
@YesWay My pleasure
@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
Could not agree more! And your reasoning is spot on Thanks for participating
@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Oct 17
Far away jobs or night jobs make it difficult to maintain relationship.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Oct 17
Far away jobs, yes, that is true. I would image those in the military being away from home make it difficult on a marriage,
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Oct 17
@dgobucks226 you meet after many years you even forget you were married
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@Ganma7 (3664)
24 Oct 17
Doctor because of long hours
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
25 Oct 17
Yes, they are on call all the time it seems.
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