BAREFACED.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (53679)
October 18, 2017 8:20am CST
Heard about this woman who fell out of love with her husband when she saw him barefaced (without his moustache) for the first time . According to her - he seemed like a stranger. During their eleven years of marriage, and before, she had never seen him without his well kept moustache -fortunately, her feelings gradually returned after he grew it back.
Hard to imagine really - I mean, he is the same person she married . Obviously she was in love with his appearance - and his money.
Would it upset you if your husband or long-time boyfriend shaved off his moustache? Do you think a moustache adds something to a man or detracts from his looks?
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17 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Oct 17
I think it is the same person no matter how they look on the outside.
Feel bad for their marriage when he gets gray hair or gains some weight as they age.
None of the outer appearance matters to me, I'm in love with my husband no matter how he looks.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 After 11 years of marriage she should be over the looks aspect really. It's not like they are just starting out.
My husband has part of a finger missing, he's gained 75 pounds since we married, he has some gray hair and I am more in love with him now than ever before.
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Mar 18
Jay had a mustache before I married him. After we were together a while, he shaved it off and looked totally different. Of course, I didn't stop loving him, it was still Jay, except the mustache was gone!
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Mar 18
@Kandae11 Then, he grew it back, which was no big deal:)
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@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
I remember a time when my husband tried to grow a moustache. I laughed at him, he looked so funny. 
He had fun with it during a vacation and then shaved it off.
He had fun with it during a vacation and then shaved it off.1 person likes this
@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I loved my husband´s generosity, among other things. That does not change.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 18
Hmm, not sure, but I have had mustache for many years. I shaved it once (before Anne) many years ago, and the space between my nose and upper lip looked like about five acres. My then small daughter did not like the look at all. I looked in the mirror a few times and started growing it back.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Nor was I when I saw the exagerrated space on my lip.
@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Oct 17
Mine shaved his a month before we decided to get a divorce, but that wasn't why we divorced. It did take some getting used to seeing him without one when he vowed never to shave it off, and I had never, not even before we were married, seen him without it.
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@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
I wouldn't know how to answer that but if that woman felt that way, I wouldn't go straight to judging her. It's natural that she'd feel her husband seemed to be a stranger when she wasn't even used to seeing him without his mustache even before they married and there's a possibility that she had a strict code embedded within her subconsciousness that she can't love anyone but the man she married.
She eventually fell back in love with him after the husband grew back his mustache, right? Then I guess her subconscious had recognized her husband in the man.
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@arthurchappell (45002)
• Preston, England
18 Oct 17
seems a bizarre reason to go off anyone
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@LeaPea2417 (36434)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Oct 17
That is superficial love and doesn't seem like genuine love for her spouse.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Oct 17
My husband had a moustache when I met him and kept it for 25 years. I used to have nightmares of how he'd look without it. Once it was gone, I thought he looked much better and younger. Personally, I prefer clean shaven, but love how my two sons look with the new hair on face look.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
18 Oct 17
Is it the look that made the woman change her feelings or something more than that 
Well, we cannot deny some really change the look when mustache and beard is gone, so maybe the man can do it slowly and not drastically.
Well, we cannot deny some really change the look when mustache and beard is gone, so maybe the man can do it slowly and not drastically.1 person likes this
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
25 Oct 17
Ha-ha....This strikes home...When my hubby shaved off his mustache because grey hairs started showing...I kept on saying he looked like a stranger...Of course I didn't stop loving him...anywZy now the moustache is back
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@sabtraversa (12914)
• Italy
18 Oct 17
It's like a woman, who always had long hair, decides to cut her hair short.
It can really change the face and appearance but, after a while, you eventually get used to the new look.
Beard for men is like makeup for women, it can hide some flaws and make a person more attractive.
That's why we shouldn't focus on looks only, I guess. 
A change of look would shock me at first, but once I'm truly in love, it wouldn't matter.
That person could turn into a mosquito, I would still love them. True love usually makes you blind.
A change of look would shock me at first, but once I'm truly in love, it wouldn't matter.
That person could turn into a mosquito, I would still love them. True love usually makes you blind. 1 person likes this
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Oct 17
My ex had a mustache , after he shaved it he was not as handsome and he grew it back.
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