She needs a life

@ricki_911 (19591)
Toronto, Ontario
October 27, 2017 12:03pm CST
My mother has nothing in life sad but true. She has no control in anything so she tries to control me. I really think shes mentalky ill considering 90% of her family is. They tend to be paranoid, accusing and lying. So i worked all yesterday again my mother works 4 hours a day and even still she doesnt support herself. So after me working 10 hours and driving 45 minutes to work each way. I came home and went to bed. Literally tossed my lunch dishes from work on the counter and off to bed. . I usually get home around 1230am or so depending. I wake up aroubd 9an but some days i sleep in unyil 930 even 1030am sometimea. I wake up to a note on my counter and this is why i think shes mentally ill. It went on and on how if someone called adult services id ve locked away and unstable people dont live like this referring to my lunch dishes and yeaterday before work i scooped the rabbit litter forgot the bag on the floor and they ripped it open. Not a big issue i swept it up this morning. It carried on to say stop buying sh=+/×/×t you don't need and take care of your animals. How if the fire department showed up i'd be charged (i had my suitcase out and was airing it out then throwing the things like flippers or camera etc in the suitcase as i dont use them often enough) which was all over but again if the place is in flames i'd be getting out. Saying this i think it because of her and her state of mind and living. Sure, i have times im lazy and push things off to the next day. But unlike her i dont have 20 years of things stacked up or cats peeing on things. At the bottom of the note it states hoarders dont invite people over. Well i hate people hence i dont like them in my space. People do come over once in awhile but i tend to live an hour away so not the first house people pick to stay. But when her own kids refuse to stay at her house that should give her the clue. But apparently that would be my fault as well.
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@Corbin5 (109662)
• United States
27 Oct
So, your mother stops by your place, or do you live with your mother? Either way, it seems like keeping your distance from your mother may be a wise thing to do.
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@ricki_911 (19591)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Oct
She shows up when i'm at work or out. I'm thinkong she got my key off my dad. I don't talk to her. She has nothing nice to say about anyone and if you say anything its your faukt for everything. I really think she's mentally ill. I avoid her because of her accusing me of things and making lies up.
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@Corbin5 (109662)
• United States
27 Oct
@ricki_911 Oh, it is a shame she has a key to your place. She may have some mental health issues.
@ricki_911 (19591)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Oct
@Corbin5 i'm just assuming since half her family has issues. I never noticed until a few people pointed out different things they see her commenting or trying to push you down. She's unhappy so bring othrrs doen.
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@dodo19 (33043)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Oct
She definitely does need to figure some things out. I'm sorry to hear that you have to deal with this. It's not pleasant or easy to deal with.
@ricki_911 (19591)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Oct
She certainly does. Judging by other people parents and mine. I think she's mentalky ill. She a narcassistic liar. Nothing is her fault. She blames me for things when I'm at work and I'm not even in that area. I believe because mt siblings got nowhere without someone else example buying a house with someone else paying whereas i work and pay for myself
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@Daelii (5685)
• United States
27 Oct
In so sorry. It doesn't sound like a healthy living arrangement for either of you. You able to move closer to work?? Good luck!
@ricki_911 (19591)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Oct
I can't afford in that area. $1,200 for a bachelor. I live in this area fmdue to cost of low rent. But i've been looking at house an hour north. She just crazy and shows up when she feels like it. Hrnce i think she's mentally ill.
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