Why some men hate valentine day

@nangayo (2291)
Nairobi, Kenya
October 28, 2017 9:12am CST
This is the day when women really test their men.The women want all the attention, flowers, chocolate, and gifts from their men. They want to be bought those beautiful red outfits. For the men some who have more than one lady life is so difficult for them. I've seen some who have faked illness or even lie about being out of town or on business trips. Instead of it being a good day it end up being hectic day for them.
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@ilocosboy (45161)
• Philippines
28 Oct 17
They dont have money to buy flowers and chocolates, or their love have subsided already
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct 17
True but there are some women who don't want to understand this and really nag their men
@ilocosboy (45161)
• Philippines
29 Oct 17
that will hard for the relationship, someone should understand when the other one is nagging
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct 17
@ilocosboy True they should understand each other.
@aureliah (24340)
• Kenya
29 Oct 17
hehehe remember that it has its own special expenses
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct 17
True they have to be ready to spend.
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@youless (112091)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Oct 17
As men are still busy to work so that they can earn more money. Men has more responsibility for the family finance. But everything's price goes crazily in Valentine's Day and it is not reasonable. Even though, the men have to try to figure out which gifts will be special and please their girl friends. This is not easy.
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct 17
And most men are just not used to such things. Those that do these things are seen as weak especially in the African society.
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@sabtraversa (12440)
• Italy
28 Oct 17
True, a lot of pressure is given to men on that day. They don't know what to do, wonder what their ladies want to do or receive. It's almost like a birthday, you never know what the expectations are. The only way to lessen the struggle is just tell our man what we'd like to get. Men don't get most clues, it's usually better to tell things straight.
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct 17
Some men are not good at buying presents for the ladies maybe it's a weakness.
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@marlina (154183)
• Canada
29 Oct 17
Some women expecting a red outfit? Is it a custom over there?
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct 17
It is a custom and when you walk in the evening the town is usually red because most of them are taken out for dinner.