Why some men hate valentine day

@nangayo (2341)
Nairobi, Kenya
October 28, 2017 9:12am CST
This is the day when women really test their men.The women want all the attention, flowers, chocolate, and gifts from their men. They want to be bought those beautiful red outfits. For the men some who have more than one lady life is so difficult for them. I've seen some who have faked illness or even lie about being out of town or on business trips. Instead of it being a good day it end up being hectic day for them.
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@sharon6345 (125687)
• United States
28 Oct
There is no excuse for it unless you just have no money. it's not hard to put aside a few bucks for a gift and hold on to it. Slack people make up terrible excuses for simple things. There is nothing wrong with buying a gift and hiding it for a special day.
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct
There are those who tend to even ignore this day altogether.
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@ilocosboy (34311)
• Philippines
28 Oct
They dont have money to buy flowers and chocolates, or their love have subsided already
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct
True but there are some women who don't want to understand this and really nag their men
@ilocosboy (34311)
• Philippines
29 Oct
that will hard for the relationship, someone should understand when the other one is nagging
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct
@ilocosboy True they should understand each other.
@ebanreb (6447)
• Philippines
30 Oct
No budget for the valentines day or maybe they are busy doing something.
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct
They do not even want to budget for it because to them it is not something that important, they say it is just a day like any other.
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@ebanreb (6447)
• Philippines
30 Oct
@nangayo for those who are not romantic valentines day is just an ordinary day for them.
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@aureliah (16141)
29 Oct
hehehe remember that it has its own special expenses
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct
True they have to be ready to spend.
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@youless (91494)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Oct
As men are still busy to work so that they can earn more money. Men has more responsibility for the family finance. But everything's price goes crazily in Valentine's Day and it is not reasonable. Even though, the men have to try to figure out which gifts will be special and please their girl friends. This is not easy.
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct
And most men are just not used to such things. Those that do these things are seen as weak especially in the African society.
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@marlina (73885)
• Canada
29 Oct
Some women expecting a red outfit? Is it a custom over there?
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Oct
It is a custom and when you walk in the evening the town is usually red because most of them are taken out for dinner.
@Corbin5 (106279)
• United States
28 Oct
Valentine's Day sounds like a lot of pressure on the guys in your area.
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct
Quite a big issue for them
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@sabtraversa (13326)
• Italy
28 Oct
True, a lot of pressure is given to men on that day. They don't know what to do, wonder what their ladies want to do or receive. It's almost like a birthday, you never know what the expectations are. The only way to lessen the struggle is just tell our man what we'd like to get. Men don't get most clues, it's usually better to tell things straight.
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@nangayo (2341)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct
Some men are not good at buying presents for the ladies maybe it's a weakness.
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