Holidays coming up
@hillhjill (23664)
United States
November 2, 2017 2:18pm CST
Oh boy here we go again at this time of the year and to be truthful I hate the holidays and always have..I had very bad holiday sense I was a kid and was always treated like the outcast of the family and it still is no different..now that I married and not into money like the rest if my family I'm treated like crap..well sorry I married for love and not money..I'm just glad that we have a couple months to go and it will over.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
3 Nov 17
I'm with you, It really is a what did you get me, money thing anymore. I could do without it. Just stress is what it is. We brought up to all the kids on doing homemade things and only a few were happy with that one. I guess it is what it is but I'm personally not into it.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
3 Nov 17
@hillhjill Exactly, we exchange names because there is so many of us, then it became a fight on the amount to be spent. 
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
3 Nov 17
Yeah I can relate..and they is how it is with me and my hubby..making stuff for one another but if we did that for the other part of my family they would be like really.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
3 Nov 17
@Ithink that's just sad..sorry to hear that..it should never matter how much something cost it the thought.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
2 Nov 17
Aw Hillary..know what you mean there about being the outcast..me too.
It does sure make holidays real difficult.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
3 Nov 17
Yes it does and my mom always wants us to go to her sisters house for the holidays like we always have but I'm tired of being treated the way I am when I'm there.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
3 Nov 17
@hillhjill Maybe this year you may change something
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
3 Nov 17
@TiarasOceanView probably not beside that I might not go to Christmas this year and go somewhere else.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Nov 17
I do not like the holidays for my own reasons.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
2 Nov 17
I would choose love over money any day. As long as you are happy that is all that matters.
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@Montecristodog (787)
• United States
3 Nov 17
Christmas is cool but I prefer the summer season. Hope this year will be better for you.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
2 Nov 17
Thank you and yes it is..but the rest of my family married into money and I don't think they would know what to do if they lost it.
@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
2 Nov 17
I also feel like I am the outcast in my family too. A few of my friends treats me better than most of my family does.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
2 Nov 17
Yes I understand that completely..it's the same way with my friends.
