November 3, 2017 1:18pm CST
Was your wedding your dream wedding? I cannot say mine was, simply because most of the planning was done by my husband -to-be - including choosing my dress. So what was your wedding like ? was it large, small, extravagant? Did everything go according to plan - no hitches? And for those planning to get married in the near future - what kind of wedding would be your dream wedding?
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• United States
Growing up, I thought I would never find someone to marry . . . so I never even dreamed of the perfect wedding! Hubby and I were together since we were 18 - got married at 32. We made it cost effective . We had a beautiful family ceremony on an island, overlooking the bay, with only immediate family and 2 close friends. A few months after that, we had the obligatory reception for the rest of the family and friends (it was at an already buffet place - again cost effective ) with about 120 people. Like I said, I was honestly not too concerned about having a dream wedding . . . I was just happy to have someone in my life .
• Daytona Beach, Florida
My first marriage back in the states wasn't something my mom wanted and we got married at the pastors with no special wedding. Here in Latvia me and my husband just mutually agreed to be together so no second wedding either and now I am all on my own. Lovely photo.
• Toccoa, Georgia
@Kandae11 It is hard to explain but I had certain relatives that were so bossy, if we did have a big wedding, they would have told us where and how we were to have it. My husband & I would have had no say so as to how we would have wanted it. So, that is why we felt we had no choice but to elope.
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
No, mine wasn't a dream wedding. I'm sorry yours was planned for you including your dress, that doesn't sound right, but you're out of that relationship, so that's a good thing. I haven't given my wedding a thought in many years. I don't know if I'll ever get married again, though I would like to.
• Redlands, California
I pissed every lady off last and only wedding I went to. Call me a liberal hippy again because there is no romance in this body. Was amazing how i hated it and was amazing how quick the women workers become upset with me. I am quiet and said maybe two sentences like never getting married swear they took it so personal. Then might of said, why so mad, you not marrying me. Should be happy not marring me
Not that you mentioned it before, but from what I gathered from your posts, I just know you are not the marrying kind. However, one never knows what the future holds, a lady may come along - sweep you off your feet and change you into the marrying kind.
• Redlands, California
@Kandae11 I tried hard, thought about it and some reason cannot stop laughing. You are right, but I think I am still thinking. Financial reasons, sad to say, How this world does. Could be why no romance in this body, Hate that its like that.
Both weddings were dream weddings to me. Everything was amazing. The only sad thing was that they did not last forever. Had either stayed faithful, I would still be married as I believe that anything can be worked out if both parties desire it.
My first marriage I had a nice wedding, it was medium sized with all my family and friends. It was the perfect day. I walked down the aisle with so many hopes and dreams, the only thing was I married the wrong man. Next time it will be with the man I love and it will be a small intimate affair with a party for family and friends.