Day two returning to mylot
@chrissbergstrom (10767)
Banks, Oregon
November 3, 2017 5:07pm CST
I hope you will read my post from. Yesterday if you haven't yet to fully understand how I have been lately. Sadly things have not been good, I feel a piece of my heart is gone, I had one of the worse things in the world happen to my family on my birthday it was heartbreaking.
I have been sad everyday since and seeing the person responsible for the sadness and devastation everyday kills me inside. I have not felt healthy lately either.
I think I may go in for a doctor's appointment soon because the stress and migraines, and not being able to sleep feels like it's killing me, and I feel like I'm just going to give myself a heart attack from all of this going on.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
4 Nov 17
i kinda wish i knew what happened so i would at least know how you can better deal with what you're going through.Some things we go through we can just shrug off but what you describe sounds very serious and nothing to be taken lightly.but i do agree you should see a doctor, if for nothing else, your physical well being and stress
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
6 Nov 17
@chrissbergstrom
For sure ,you can message me anytime and i do understand why you don't want to put it out here.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
I will message you I just don't want to put it out on here just yet
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
@jujunme thanks for understanding
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Nov 17
I think that is a wonderful idea, you can tell the doctor everything and he/she will at least give you something to use for sleep. No sleep causes all kinds of problems.
Hang in there things will be okay.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
Thanks I also really would like counseling
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
Yes it would and it will happen soon
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Nov 17
@chrissbergstrom Good for you!
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@kobesbuddy (74550)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Nov 17
First of all, decide what you really want and then go after it! People do things to us, that aren't very nice. That's pretty normal, in this world as it stands!
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
@kobesbuddy thank you I will continue to pray
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@kobesbuddy (74550)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Nov 17
@chrissbergstrom Prayer will get your strength back, from this bad experience.
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@thislittlepennyearns (58134)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
4 Nov 17
Try getting a doctor's appointment.
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@thislittlepennyearns (58134)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Nov 17
@chrissbergstrom or maybe a counseling appointment? Or both. I don't know.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
3 Nov 17
You have to take care of you. You don't want yourself getting seriously ill with all that is going on in your life.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
Yes I need to remember myself and stop stressing about everything else
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
6 Nov 17
Yes, most definitely listen to your self/body, if you need to see a doctor, do so please! =) Take care!
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
6 Nov 17
@chrissbergstrom Yes, I find myLot having a very supporting system =) If only everyone was as nice as this for the most part, right?!!
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
@infatuatedbby yes I wish more people were so understanding
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
Thanks Michelle it is nice to have such a support system here on myLot I wish my friends could be more supportive
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
4 Nov 17
I hope your doctor can help. I am sorry you are going through this. I hope things start to seem better eventually.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
3 Nov 17
A doctor visit does sound needed. Again, I hope things get better.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Nov 17
Just to try to learn to relax and focus your mind on the activities you find rewarding.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
5 Nov 17
Yeah, it might be a good time to see a Doctor. Can't hurt.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 17
Thanks bud feeling a bit better today but I know I need to schedule a visit to doctor soon
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 17
oh dear, you sound so broken hearted, could you please share with us so that we could help you out?
@jstory07 (134422)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Nov 17
You should go to a Doctor to see if that would help you to be able to relax,
@Tampa_girl7 (48927)
• United States
24 Nov 17
Sorry to hear this. I will read your other discussion. I hope that you are feeling ether now.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
15 Nov 17
First off - welcome back. I missed you and am sure others did too. Happy you're back.
Second off - I am sorry to hear that things are not going so well for you at the moment.
Are you able to say something (gently?) or confront them if needed? I know that is not always possible. Sometimes I find that easier by written word.
Another thing I have found helpful when in a difficult situation is writing a letter that you don't send to the person. At first it sounds frustrating, but it really does help.
Power of prayer
and doing things that you might not feel like, such as getting out, getting exercise, probably the last thing in the world you want to do - but those do make you feel better...
In the end -all you can control is you and your actions. You can't do a thing about the other person, unfortunate.
I hope there is some comfort for you in there. It will work out one way or another
@dgobucks226 (34348)
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15 Nov 17
Perhaps you need to see a doctor to prescribe something to help your depression? Only a professional would best be able to evaluate what would be best for you.
