why are people so heartless

@aureliah (16844)
November 8, 2017 8:36am CST
For the last six months, I have dealt with a lady who has so much negative energy. She says all the wrong things about people just to see them down. She believes that she's got it all to even go after people's boyfriends.. Have you met such people? Howvdo you deal with them?
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@nangayo (2339)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Nov
I have met such people and learnt most of them have an inferiority complex. They just are looking for attention.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
Exactly but the problem is that they are never comfortable with their lives.
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@nangayo (2339)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Nov
@aureliah They have to create all the fuss to be noticed and that is their game.
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@aureliah (16844)
15 Nov
@nangayo Very very true and when you cut off all links, they get disappointed.
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@anorona (227)
• Philippines
12 Nov
Those kinds of people are not happy with their lives, because they only tend to say negative things to people where in fact they are just insecure.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
Negativity is toxic and they do not end up well. They are always worried about something
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@anorona (227)
• Philippines
14 Nov
@aureliah as much as possible, just ignore them so they wont affect you with their negative doings
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@aureliah (16844)
15 Nov
@anorona I had to cut off links completely since this was the best thing for me.
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@amadeo (67784)
• United States
8 Nov
No I have not.How do handle them.Bite Me.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
hahaha re you for real? These people are many and they do not know how to stop
@amadeo (67784)
• United States
13 Nov
@aureliah I have not me one yet.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
@amadeo Nice
@LadyDuck (163770)
• Switzerland
8 Nov
Yes, unfortunately I have met people like this. I try to stay away.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
Yeah staying away has proved to also work in my situation.
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@abissue (43)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
8 Nov
Yes, maybe she has a kind of trauma or something that hurt her, I recommend to be patient and try to be sympathetic
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
You are sympathetic but they get worse and if you keep away they find ways to get to you.
@sjvg1976 (18364)
• Delhi, India
8 Nov
I neglect such negative people and try not to remain in company of such people.
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@aureliah (16844)
13 Nov
That is a smart move since such negativity can be so damaging
@1hopefulman (30178)
• Canada
25 Nov
Some people, like wasps, just have to be left alone. Are you forced to deal with her?
@aureliah (16844)
4 Dec
No because I left her alone already
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@1hopefulman (30178)
• Canada
4 Dec
@aureliah There are 8 billion people and some are actually nice.
@aureliah (16844)
5 Dec
@1hopefulman very true
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