A Freakin Psycho, No More Do Gooder

@andriaperry (30924)
Anniston, Alabama
November 10, 2017 8:23pm CST
Today I worked driving, Tony had another treatment so I wait for a couple hours and drove him back home. Two hours drive round trip. All went well. Then I decided to be a do gooder and stop to buy my elderly tenants a turkey and deliver it, they will pay me back and they are expecting it any day. This is 30 more minutes drive but hey! Its time to be nice. I am sure I mentioned this before but for those who do not know they are special needs ( born slightly retarded) and for the most part know how to act right around people. BUT not tonight. I knock on the door and hand the eldest the turkey and the other one walks in th room already talking. The older one tells me she won`t leave her be and continues to nag. The other one takes out her wallet but continues this rant to me about the other one wont allow her to drive. I told her buy her own car and that makes her worst. I step back. Then I told her it did not matter because you dont have a car to drive and I have my hand out for the money. She rants, screaming. I yell " can I have my money?" she reaches in the wallet and hands me the money and I just about run out the door, leaving it open behind me and she is still ranting. I get in the car and Tony said " Yes I know I can hear her." He uses his cell phone and calls her, she never stops the whole time he is trying to calm her down but he did tell her that if her friend was a real friend she wouldd teach her how to drive in her new car. See the oldest is 75 years old and has a drivers license but no car she is saving for one and the sister is 66 year old half blind and falls all the time because she stumbles over her own feet, or curbs. I am sur one of my other tenants will call the police to them, its happened before. No more do gooder for me.
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@1creekgirl (8329)
• United States
11 Nov
Don't let that keep you from helping others. You have a good heart, Andria.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
Maybe I need to help other people and not so many special needs people.
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• United States
11 Nov
@andriaperry That might be a good resolution.
@JudyEv (96863)
• Bunbury, Australia
11 Nov
It is always really disappointing - and maddening - when we try to do the right thing and it all goes haywire. You are a kind person. I hope they behave better next time you see them.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I don`t feel kind. I ran out that door.
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@teamfreak16 (35174)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
11 Nov
Yeah, I wouldn't have the patience for that. At all.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I am seriously tired of them.
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@teamfreak16 (35174)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
11 Nov
@andriaperry - I don't blame you one bit.
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@AmbiePam (45757)
• United States
11 Nov
It's deflating to do something kind and then the person acts like it was the least you could do.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
Well the turkey was really ignored and one wanted help and the other one was wild and ranting about learning to drive and they do now even have a car!
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@kobesbuddy (16635)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Nov
That is such childish behavior, screaming and ranting like they're the only ones who can hear that noise! If someone does call the police, they will both get in big trouble, for this
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I hope they do get in trouble.
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@kobesbuddy (16635)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Nov
@andriaperry It will serve them right, acting so childish around you and Tony!
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@Hatley (157679)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov
od ea that d oes soud dauting but dont forgetto help others kust l eave toseones a lome lool lol lol
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I wont forget.
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@Ithink (6100)
• United States
11 Nov
I think we know better then to think you wont help someone out again. That is who you are and that is what you do. I wouldn't be able to deal with people like that a lot thou. How often do you have to deal with them?
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
Once a month, but at the holidays more. sometimes they call, the elder when the younger one is like his.
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@Ithink (6100)
• United States
11 Nov
@andriaperry Ohh a little to much. Ekks!
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@Kandae11 (25590)
11 Nov
I wonder if those two should be living together.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
They are sisters and always have, so yes nothing will change there.
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@Platespinner (18072)
• Winston Salem, North Carolina
11 Nov
How very frustrating.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
Yes it was, but I blew that off and I did not bring that home with me.
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@hostessman (6922)
• Tucson, Arizona
11 Nov
you tryied and that is all you can do, just don't let it bother you.. life goes on
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I didnt, I left that crazy there and came home with a nice relaxed feeling.
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@CoralLevang (39822)
• United States
11 Nov
It's hard to know what sets some people off sometimes. You have a good heart, Andria. Hugs.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
She has been doing this for years, thinking she can get in a car and drive with no license, not insuance and all at the cost of her sister.
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@CoralLevang (39822)
• United States
12 Nov
@andriaperry Puzzling, for sure.
@rebelann (30979)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Nov
And we're supposed to believe that?? Of course you'll be a do gooder again, it's just what cha do but maybe next time you'll have someone with ya so they can distract them from their rants. Hmmmmm, I wonder if they shut up if ya showed up in a Bozo the Clown suit? Just sayin..........
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
Show up with the police, maybe then they would shut up but its doubtful.
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@rebelann (30979)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Nov
I feel sorry for their neighbors @andriaperry
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@LadyDuck (118454)
• Switzerland
11 Nov
I understand that they are special need, but this is not the right way to do. I can understand you were upset.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I am learning to walk away, cant help nothing like that.
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@TRBRocks420 (60828)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Nov
That's always annoying. I would have got out of there too lol.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I am really really tired of hearing it.
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@jstory07 (57044)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Nov
I hate it when you do good to help someone and they act that way. All you can do is turn around and leave.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
I feel sorry for the oldest, she has to live there.
@Srbageldog (4803)
• United States
11 Nov
Special needs or not, it's unacceptable for them to behave like that (especially the one ranting and raving over nonsense.) I would have hightailed it out of there too.
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@andriaperry (30924)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Nov
She needs mental medication.
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@kepweng (5805)
12 Nov
its Scarry these must be Prevented!
• Eugene, Oregon
12 Nov
That made for a very unpleasant afternoon.
@GardenGerty (90189)
• Marion, Kansas
11 Nov
The energy they drain can be exhausting, even when YOU are doing the right thing.
• Ponce De Leon, Florida
11 Nov
Wow. That's a stressfull situation. Maybe I should bring you some pie and a cup of coffee so you can take a break.