“When you are terrible at something, what do you do?”
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (137189)
Philippines
November 10, 2017 9:04pm CST
For some people, they tend to whine about everything if they feel frustrated over something. It is normal to be feeling in blue. The sad part, even if you had given your ample time and advice, they still don’t listen. It would be better to ignore them. I salute for those people who can handle terrible things that might or is happening in their lives. I think it is better to deal with it first. If the situation cannot handle our own power, then it is about time to ask for any assistance or help.
“How about you, guys?”
“Do you handle your mess first before asking for help?”
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15 responses
@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
11 Nov 17
I am a person who solves my problems on my own.
I only ask for help if I have tried everything but not successfully solved it.
I don't want to share my problem with others.
So as long as I can handle it myself, i keep it to myself and solve it by myself too..
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov 17
I tryto figure out what I dlid wro ng andd correctt first hen ifi canotI willask for hhelp from my son but at times askigf for help fro
'someone inthat trade if a smart thiing as they can show you what you
did wsrong and also shoy you jvvhow to do it yourself o ncve you learnthat you feel self comfdent and thats a great feelng
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov 17
@Shavkat I learned to resetr my modem an fouter wem mu cable lgoes off line a repair man showed me
jopw and its so simple I do not need to call for jelp
a good feelvilmg to be able too do some things on compue fro myself lol lo
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@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
27 Nov 17
@Shavkat that's true. True friends I have are less than the fingers of just one of my hands. I have just two true friends. Whom have stuck with me even in the darkest days of my life. I'd say I'm pretty lucky to have such two true friends.
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@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
27 Nov 17
However, I've found some real true online friends particularly on myLot. Even though it is sort of an online social community in it's own right, yep, there are some of them just right here willing to lend an ear to an ailing wit or soul. :)
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@kobesbuddy (74424)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Nov 17
First I try to understand what caused the issue, in the first place. Then, I try to decided if it's something I can tackle alone, or if possibly, I might have to ask for someones help.
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@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
12 Nov 17
Although I don’t like people who gripe about the things that happen to them, I believe that asking for help is never wrong. In itself you’re already admitting that you’re not capable of doing it yourself and if in case of comitting a mistake asking for help is already admitting that you’ve done something wrong too...but asking for help is hard, because of the same reasons stated, you need to lower your pride...
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@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
27 Nov 17
I try to handle my problems as long as I can. If I can't handle it anymore I ask for other's help
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Nov 17
i can handle a difficulty with an open mind. if i cannot handle, i can quietly bring out my ire by shouting, and then the tension is released.
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
11 Nov 17
yes. You are right. I agree with you.
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@ourlot (982)
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11 Nov 17
Try your best. That's a good beginning. If you are bad at it, but you like it, at some time you'll be reasonable good.
@japanesesamurai (2196)
• Japan
11 Nov 17
i dont like forcing my luck or ability..for example i am really bad at singing and also playing any instruments,so i just dont doo..have a nice day.
