How to deal with people who think they are ahead of you?

@JustBhem (70555)

Davao, Philippines

November 12, 2017 6:44am CST

It's either we need to block them in our life so that they can no longer affecting our life or ignore them. It's the same thing as knowing someone they are smarter than you, but they are not. Pretending they know everything but they lack information and still want to insist they are right. I deal with this kind of people before that is why some people have mistaken for a snob or aloof. In meeting people in every place, I tend to analyze or observe their behavior first before engaging with them. In that way, I will not look stupid in front of them. Okay, this is not a rant. How do you do today?

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@ilocosboy (45157)

• Philippines

12 Nov 17

I see, this is not a rant, but this is 'hugot' he he. Well, I think we just ignore them (or us if I'm included he he), its good you observe first people before engaging.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

Yes, because of course, I want to protect myself in case.

@ilocosboy (45157)

• Philippines

12 Nov 17

that is nice, maybe in my case, I'm always been careless.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

@ilocosboy Ahahaha. Now I know that.

@Shortail (845)

• Philippines

12 Nov 17

well, by the power of sarcasm.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

And do you think it is right?

@Shortail (845)

• Philippines

12 Nov 17

@JustBhem well of course, you agree with them, they believe you, and you confuse them, and they will analyze that they were wrong.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

@Shortail Are you talking about the people who commented here? Am I confusing them?

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

12 Nov 17

so sorry you have problems there.I do hope you can work this out.You do not need tihis

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

Actually, it is not a problem it is just something I encounter some time ago.

@Hannihar (129388)

• Israel

13 Nov 17

I understand what you are saying. I hate people that think they know everything and no nothing. I try to ignore them.

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@Hannihar (129388)

• Israel

14 Nov 17

@JustBhem I really do not know if that is the best option but if I open my mouth to say something I get jumped on so I guess that is how I would handle it Bhem.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

14 Nov 17

@Hannihar Ahaha, I understand you. Yes. Sometimes I like to say something that will hurt that kind of person. But since I don't want to put up a fight with anyone. I just let it go and kill them in my thoughts instead. Lol. Is that bad? Lol.

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

I guess the best option for us.

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@peachpurple (13884)

• Malaysia

12 Nov 17

I am not as observant as you are

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

I don't know why I am like that maybe because of my past experiences.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

@peachpurple It was good, I still need to wait for the second interview tomorrow.

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@peachpurple (13884)

• Malaysia

13 Nov 17

@JustBhem so, how was your interview?

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• Smila, Ukraine

12 Nov 17

As for me, I connected to some people and I know, that they usually like workmates with the same interests, for examle going somewhere to relax and drink. Sometimes they are just rivals to each other, so we need to stay qualified and develop ourselves in a suitable better way.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

So meaning you need them to inspire you, right?

@allen0187 (58438)

• Philippines

13 Nov 17

I just don't deal with these kind of people. Not worth my time.

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@allen0187 (58438)

• Philippines

13 Nov 17

@JustBhem true!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

Whatever our position in a company, or places we are going, there is always this kind of people. I think it is better to just ignore them.

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@wongchoiyee (7413)

• Malaysia

15 Nov 17

Better get rid than regret later.

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@wongchoiyee (7413)

• Malaysia

16 Nov 17

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

15 Nov 17

I agree with you. We need to practical. Thanks.

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@prashu228 (37526)

• India

14 Nov 17

It's better to get rid of such people. My day is fine

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

14 Nov 17

Yes, we need to.

Sabrina Traversa

@sabtraversa (12901)

• Italy

13 Nov 17

I usually don't observe much, but after some hits on the wall, I should consider doing so.

At the same time, I don't let my life and emotions depend on an argument or disagreement with a stranger or a person I don't know very well, so I tend to not mind these people, although I'd prefer spending my time differently.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

You always have a good point Sabrina and thank you for sharing your views. I think I should do that too.

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@DianneN (246540)

• United States

12 Nov 17

I ignore people like that. You must know that you can never change them.

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@DianneN (246540)

• United States

13 Nov 17

@JustBhem That's for certain!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

Yes. exactly. People are just simply like that and they will never change.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (305864)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Nov 17

I simply don't deal with people who think they know everything and think they are better than everybody else. Doing well today. I hope you are too.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

Yes, me too. I decided to ignore them but sometimes I can't just take it especially when they are full of themselves, like airbags. I am doing well a little.

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@JudyEv (325594)

• Rockingham, Australia

12 Nov 17

Being retired our circle of friends is now quite small and it's easy to avoid people we don't have much in common with.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

Me too, I only have few friends it is better like that.

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@Kandae11 (53679)

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12 Nov 17

Rant or not, it is healthy to get things off our chest. My day is fine so far.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

Oh yes, it feels better. I agree with you.

@yugocean (9965)

• India

12 Nov 17

I learn, learn, take experience, understand, and do. Just claiming something won't change the reality, but better take care do not left behind just thinking about those people.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 Nov 17

The best way is to ignore them and excel in your own ways.

@LadyDuck (457888)

• Switzerland

12 Nov 17

No matter where we go, no matter what we do we cannot escape this kind of people. Ignore them.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 Nov 17

I agree it is better to ignore them. Yes.

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