My friend thinks her husband is Gay.
November 13, 2017 4:13am CST
My friend Val has been married to her husband for over 20 years now, and as far as she knows, he has never even looked at another woman apart from in fun. However, she was telling me the other day that for about the past year or so, he has been talking non stop about a new male friend of theirs. This male friend is younger than them and they see him about once a month . He is married with a young family and a successful business , and in my opinion does not have much in common with Val or her husband. Val says that her husband talks about this man daily , often commenting on his clothes and his looks. When they meet up with this man, Val says that her husband is often quiet and leaves her to do all the talking. Should Val be worried about this?
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• Semarang, Indonesia
@millie02 you're right about that... I honestly feel horrifying when you say that her husband often commenting on his clothes and looks, but Val have to positive thinking. Sometimes what we think is not always true, it just will make her having stressful and it's not good for her.
• Manchester, England
I think it's more likely to be some sort of mid-life crisis thing. He probably sees this younger man as being everything he wants to be but feels he maybe hasn't been and, more importantly, can no longer be. More a case of 'wish I could be him' rather than 'wish I could be with him'.
• United States
My friend sat here many nights telling me things about her husband. She thought he was gay but did not know. I began to notice some of those same things with the man I was with. One was that he never noticed woman around us. I never thought anything of it but as time went on she found her husband had a man out of town. She found it all on facebook. I found a secret phone that was the connection to his 2 year lover. I would not put it past this man. She needs to go online to find out more info. I began going to chat lines. And a very sweet gay man told me all the things to look for in my man. I think after what I have seen in this wicked world with low life people anything is possible. Dirty people will master a good front to keep a secret.