What 14- How do you stay positive when you are down?

@peachpurple (13884)
Malaysia
November 13, 2017 11:20pm CST
The only way to stay positive instead of negative is to look things at the bright side. Look under the silver lining. Right now, I am down in spirit. I had applied 7 job applications, 5 of them had rejected my applications. That means the remainder would be rejected soon. I know that my age is not under the job specification although I have the sufficient working experience. Most employers are looking for fresh graduates but I am a housewife who had been out of job for 10 years. So, the possibility of getting an interview is 1%. It's OK. At least I had tried my best. I did sent out my CV and I am still looking for other job positions which are not my cup of tea. I have to think positive, try to adapt to new things and new environment. I don't tell myself to give up yet. This is not the end yet. Just keeping submitting the CV until I get the job. So, how do you stay positive when your luck is down to the drain? Do you give up easily?
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• Philippines
14 Nov 17
I would resort to watching television or playing computer games or apps on my phone. I can't afford to dwell too much in depression.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
that is a good way to clear your mind off
@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 17
I hope you don't give up searching. Sometimes opportunities come your way at the least expected times. I'm not always positive and optimistic either but when I take my time to reflect on what I really want to achieve, it helps to get me back on track.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
you are right, so I am searching now
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
14 Nov 17
I am a positive person for the most part so I just say a prayer and hope for the best.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
good way to stay positive, prayers, I do that daily
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Nov 17
if you feel down.This is not going to help you.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
14 Nov 17
I agree Alfredo @amadeo
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
yes I know that too
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Nov 17
And I know the feeling, Me too been rejected for many times already and it did not stop me from applying for more. There is still hope for me and I can't just lose it. I have bills to pay and I badly needed a job so this is my inspiration. Don't stop and be positive as always. Best of luck for both of us.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
@peachpurple I am 34 is that young? Lol. Age is just numbers. We have this kid at heart.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 17
@JustBhem 36 is consider "expired" because that is the age doctors do not recommend getting pregnant. So you are still young at 34
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
you too girl, I am sure you can because you are younger than me, I am an old goat now
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Nov 17
I do not give up easily I keep up trying harder. I remember when I was looking for a job I sent out CVs everywhere and kept hoping for the best. What encouraged me is that at least my CV got to be read because sometimes I used to be called for interviews and even if I failed some interviews I still felt I could make it which I did.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
so, did you get the job finally?
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Nov 17
@peachpurple Yes i did in a legal firm and i love it.
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
30 Dec 17
Dont be disappointed if you do not get anything now. Keep trying. Something will surely come your way.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
17 Jun 18
@peachpurple Hope you have a good job now.
@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 18
Thanks for your kind words
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
21 Nov 17
Yes, keeping a positive attitude helps and prayer can help us cope and hope for better things.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
21 Nov 17
@peachpurple I hope you do!
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 17
positive attitude for better confidence, I am sure I can find a job soon
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 17
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Nov 17
Maybe you should try those jobs you are used to doing in your work days. That way, you can answer their interview well. Just keep trying. I only apply for jobs that I am a graduate of. I am an Accounting graduate and most companies like accounting graduate people.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
good idea, I should go for sales job since my previous job was sales
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Nov 17
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 17
@SIMPLYD go go go, sure can do it
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
14 Nov 17
Don't worry. There are companies who look for ladies who want to start their second career. Keep updating your skills.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
thanks, I do hope so, wonder who will employ me....
@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Nov 17
I hope you are able to find a job really soon.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 17
thanks
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• United States
16 Nov 17
I don't give up easily and try to stay positive and tell myself that whatever it is will work out. I know the right job is there for you so don't give up hope.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 17
you sound very positive. So, I will try again today.
@DianneN (246819)
• United States
14 Nov 17
Think positive. I worked 51/2 years, then was a stay at home mom. I was able to find a wonderful job when I decided to return to the work force.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
17 Nov 17
@peachpurple Never give up. If you want something bad enough, you will get it. Best of luck to you.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 17
@DianneN ok, will try, maybe it might take months
@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
you did? Wow! I must try again
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14 Nov 17
I always think about my goals.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 17
that is good, always think of your goals, try not to give up
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14 Nov 17
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
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• Preston, England
14 Nov 17
I don't build up my hopes too high, so the knockbacks don't feel so bad - and the successes are a greater joy - there will be high points - just keep going, it's all you can do. Good luck
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
good idea, I should do that
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 17
I know it's hard to find a job when you have been out of jobs positions for many years. Do not feel down, continue to submit your CV, I am sure you will find a job.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
thanks, I know that too, I will keep trying
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 17
It must be disheartening for you to get so many rejections. I hope that you will find something suitable soon.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
yes it was, but I will try another method, maybe mine was wrong
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
14 Nov 17
Yeah I think that is the best thing to do, to look it on the positive side.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
you are right
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
14 Nov 17
I'm sorry to hear that. You just gotta keep trying though. And you are right. You did your best, keep doing your best and you will be rewarded
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
thanks for your encouraging words
@gnatsmom (2336)
14 Nov 17
I have been there. It wasn't too long ago, that I literally felt like I was cursed. I must admit that I did not handle it as I should. I dwelt on it and got bitter and angry. That affected my relationships and my ability to see where I was blessed. For me, I went straight to God. I questioned Him. I decided to study the Bible harder to try to understand His character and His ways more. Honestly, that did not change my situation, but it did change my attitude. Once my attitude began to change, so did my circumstances. I know people have a different approach to faith, so I don't want to force mine on anyone. I do know you have already taken one positive step by asking others for support or encouragement. Talking to someone about it will keep all those toxic feeling from building up inside of you. Keep pressing on, have confidence in yourself, and let those companies know why they would be better off in hiring you. I am wishing you all the best.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 17
thansk for your share, God will help me, I trust HIM