Yes! Marriage after 20 years can still be new and exciting!

November 15, 2017 9:09am CST
Hello all! I wanted to touch on this as a lot of people believe that after 20 years being married is only dull and boring. I have been married to my husband for 20 years and we have had our ups and downs and people never thought we would make it this far! I am proud to say that we are! Each day my husband brings on new and exciting things to our marriage that I truly and dearly love! We had a fall out about a year ago as our marriage had hit a slump and we both knew with a few changes we could make it work and low and behold it did! Now, we are more passionate about one another than we have ever been! We go on dates and he leaves little notes and so do I saying how much we love one another. My advice to you is that if you have hit a slump in a long time marriage, talk to one another and let one another know what is bothering you and make those changes! There is hope! My husband is still the one and I will let Shania Twain tell it all! :-) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNZH-emehxA
Music video by Shania Twain performing You're Still The One. (C) 1998 Mercury Records, a Division of UMG Recordings, Inc.
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@fishtiger58 (30383)
• Momence, Illinois
15 Nov
all marriages have their ups and downs. This coming May I will be married for 30 years. He is my everything but some days I just want him to leave me alone lol. Doesn't mean we are headed for divorce not at all. We are retired and some days I just want peace and quiet.
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15 Nov
I totally understand where your coming from fishtiger58! Congrats on 30 years coming up! :) Hope each day brings you new and exciting times with one another!
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@paigea (21556)
• Canada
16 Nov
I get that need for peace completely! Some days I feel like I just need a break to think my own thoughts
@m_audrey6788 (13827)
• Germany
15 Nov
So true! Congrats to your successful 20yrs Marriage
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15 Nov
Thank you very much!
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• Germany
15 Nov
@woodruffhouse Welcome!
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@shaggin (35685)
• United States
15 Nov
That is really wonderful you two are still happily married. Welcome to mylot by the way!
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15 Nov
Thanks Shaggin! I love it so far! So many wonderful threads to read!
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@shaggin (35685)
• United States
15 Nov
@woodruffhouse You can find any topic you want to read about here it’s really neat.
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@Orson_Kart (4243)
• United Kingdom
15 Nov
It doesn't apply to Shania as she now has another 'one'.
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15 Nov
LOL True! Hopefully this will be a lasting one for her!
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@sharon6345 (115900)
• United States
15 Nov
I hope one day to see that oy in myself. I am glad you have this good love.
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15 Nov
Thank you! You will see this one day, just keep communication open and make each day new and exciting! Have a great day!
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@kobesbuddy (37025)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Nov
This is a great revelation, to hear that a couple can survive, all the ups and downs of life.
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@fly802 (1521)
19 Nov
So lovely relation.You`re really lucky couple.The best wishes for both of you.
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@LeaPea2417 (18640)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Nov
I do agree with you. My husband and I are married 29 and a half years and we have had our ups and downs but we do still have good times together.
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