I remain silent even if it pains me.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 15, 2017 9:23am CST
Since my 3rd Brother doesn't want to pay his share for our Water Bill, I am the one who looks for a solution in paying our Water Bill today, the reason for not staying here earlier. My second Brother - the one has food business only give me a less amount when in fact they should have paid the half of the bill because they have his own business yet he is very hard to deal with when it comes to sharing of the bills we have. As much as wanted these two get lost in my sight. I tried my best to calm down because I don't want to have my BP in high temperature. So I keep myself silent. I wanted to shout at them about how irresponsible they are. That I also have my share of issues. And they have the nerve to point the fault is to me. I wanted to cry in front of them but I still remain silent even if it pains me. How hard is life to me?
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@LadyDuck (457888)
• Switzerland
15 Nov 17
I am so sorry, you are not lucky with your brothers and mothers, just like me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
I don't understand them at times and I feel sad about it.
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@LadyDuck (457888)
• Switzerland
16 Nov 17
@JustBhem There is nothing you can do, I can understand you feel sad.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Nov 17
@LadyDuck I think so, but at least they need to understand me.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Nov 17
I think you should already be married to your boyfriend, if they are stressing you like that. Why on earth won't he like to pay his share of the bill when he uses water for his business.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Nov 17
@JustBhem kuripot.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Nov 17
He is very hard to deal with and he is always like that. Wants to have a much lesser share. I know there is a term for a person like that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Nov 17
@SIMPLYD Ahahaha. Exactly.!
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 17
Its hard, you will have to be patient.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Nov 17
I think I need to.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Nov 17
that is tough to bear.So sorry there
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Nov 17
@JustBhem you are tough there.Stand firm
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Nov 17
@amadeo Okays and thanks.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
Yes, and all I need to be tougher than I am. Thanks.
@JudyEv (325584)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Nov 17
That's very sad but keeping your feelings bottled up inside won't be very good for your blood pressure either.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Nov 17
Yes, I know that is why I'd rather be silent instead.
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@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
20 Nov 17
You should definitely react to it. They are taking advantage of you, which should not be allowed.You should shout at them. Don't remain silent.It will only harm you.If you know they are doing injustice you should react to it and stop it quickly.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 17
I hate to start arguments with them because I cannot hold back my tears. I just let them say something to me.
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
15 Nov 17
It's sad when the people close to us, especially family, cannot be counted on to help us when we need it the most. Have you considered moving or living by yourself? Maybe the reason why they treat you that way is because they know they can always count on you because you're just always there. Once you leave them to their own devices, maybe they will realize your worth and how they should be ashamed of themselves for taking advantage of you in that manner.
@sabtraversa (12900)
• Italy
15 Nov 17
If they don't want to pay their share, I hope they'll at least help you with other things. You can't just give and then receive nothing, maybe you end up getting something from another source, but it would be better if things were fair and neat. You can't take all the fault, you're making compromises to be able to pay the bills. I would have cried, I can't hide such feelings.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
Yes, I feel like crying earlier when they beat me with words. I am just their elder sister and sick. It would be easy if they know their responsibilities. By they are not.
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Nov 17
I am sorry you are in this situation.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
I can get over this. Thanks for the concern.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
15 Nov 17
That is not a good situation. I'm so sorry.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Nov 17
that is why i am somehow encouraging you to live out of your house.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Nov 17
Sorry you have that to deal with. It's not right.
@Kandae11 (53679)
15 Nov 17
Your 3rd brother is the one at fault - why are you being blamed?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
You are right. My 3rd Brother said he will be the one to pay the remaining balance once I have the rest of the money we save, then he turned his back on us because of his wife.
@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
15 Nov 17
that's the problem of living with your family, find some place to rent if you can.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Nov 17
How I wish I can. But I cannot in the meantime. We need to settle our debts first before venturing into a new home for ours.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
15 Nov 17
Oh no that's really bad.. you have to bear so much.