Just another conflict.
November 17, 2017 6:49am CST
I've been told for so many times that I should get a place of my own or I need to leave this house. And how I wish I can do that now. Before it was so easy to just leave and bring some small stuff but now I cannot do that because I can't carry all my things. That is one of the problems I have. How I wish I can just leave right away. But I don't want the boyfriend to get upset and mad at me. He wants me to be more patients living here in the meantime. And whatever chaos my Mother is giving me and that I should not bother myself about her. A while ago, she nags at me again. She wants to have a hot chocolate and our younger Brother refuse to buy her. She is not allowed to have those drinks because of her Hypertension. I told her she cannot have those and it is for her own good. Then she wants me to leave the house. We only want what is the best for her since she is trying to cope up the sickness she is having. But all the explanation we told her don't have meaning for her. She simply doesn't understand it. I am down in the dumps at the moment.
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please do not give up, i am sure you have already been patient, but you should listen to your boyfriend and have even more patience. Your mom is just mad because she can't have everything she likes now, but she is not mad all the time right?
She is just upset and speaking out in anger. I know it is difficult since you are not feeling well yourself but just try to not let her get to you when she gets like that. I hope things will improve there so that you can stay and not have the stress of moving.
Your mother should not be giving you a hard time - especially when you yourself are not well. Too much stress cannot be good for both of you. The way I see it, the best solution would be to have your own place - but that might not be possible at this time , so you'll simply have to try ignoring her.
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I don't know what that is but I do know a heck of a lot of people that are living and eating what they should not. I read a post here the other day from someone about not restricting her diet. she only gets one life to live. I don't have a clue about that condition. I do know I would give a little joy to my mom.a craving is a terrible thing. Even if you don't give her a full cup. but I am just saying.