And she did it again!

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 17, 2017 10:07pm CST
I woke up by the commotion outside our house this morning. I heard my 4th Brother, my Aunt and of course, my Mother yelling at each other. I listened to their heated conversation first before intruding. Looks like my Mother did it again! She always makes someone fight. Looks like she was the one who created the commotion at first. She was the one who started the fight of my 4th Brother and my Aunt about the loan they have. I really don't get her most of the time. I think she really has a mental problem. And I think she needs to see a Doctor.
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• United States
18 Nov 17
Is your mom bothered by something?
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• United States
18 Nov 17
@JustBhem Yes, I think there must be something bothering her that she isn't telling you all.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@infatuatedbby I think her problem is herself. She cannot be trusted. She always gossips other people. And today, she let my Aunt and my 4th Brother fight. She started the fight.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
I think so, but she never talked to us. And if we tried to talk to her, she will yell at us.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
18 Nov 17
Definitely needs to see a dr.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
That is what I am thinking.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Nov 17
Really? that serious? if you think she really needs one why not, but maybe its kinda hard for you to convince her to see a doctor.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@JustBhem actually, but I think it's a normal reaction, If it happens to me maybe I get mad also because ofcourse I can't accept it easily, nobody will embrace thoughts about meantal illness easily. So, you have a very big problem now my friend.. how to convince her.. But as they said, consulting a psychologist doesn't mean you have a mental illness.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
That is my problem because she is very hard to deal with most of the time. For sure if I will tell her about seeing a Doctor she will get mad at me and think she has a mental illness.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@cttolledo I know that. More on like talking to someone who can understand her behavior and her problem since she cannot open that to us.
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Nov 17
You should really take her to see a Doctor.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
And if we do that for sure she will get mad if we tell her to see a Doctor.
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 17
If that has been happening too frequently then maybe she needs help or consultation to help her get better. So sad though, especially when money is involved.
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 17
@JustBhem I hope you manage to find the best way to work things out.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@cahaya1983 I will try my best to come up with one because this is getting too far already.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
And I need to talk things out with my siblings first about this.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
18 Nov 17
that is why my advise for you is to live away from her, but i guess you won't do that yet.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Nov 17
@JustBhem then, i hope you try to live 'alone by yourself in your house', unmindful of the other personalities.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 17
@ridingbet Yes, that is what I am doing now. I stayed in my room for the whole day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
Yes, my friend. I cannot in the meantime. I really want to let go.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
18 Nov 17
What do you think is the reason why your mother is creating all the trouble at home?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 17
Because she is jealous, she likes money, she wants us to give her money - all of our hard earned money. She is very hard to deal with, she yells most of the time. She likes to tell stories which are not true. She likes to gossip other people. She is a nagger. She is irresponsible Mother to us. She is a liar. She is bitter about herself. - what we think of her.
@marguicha (215422)
• Chile
18 Nov 17
Why donĀ“t you take her to a doctor?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
How I wish it is simple as that. And we need to buy her some time.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
18 Nov 17
it is sad when people fight about money. how did she start the fight this time?
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
19 Nov 17
@JustBhem oh that is not good, i hope everything is sorted by now
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
She told my Aunt that my 4th Brother is saying something about the loan my Aunt is having when in fact it is not the truth. She gets mad because my 4th Brother did not give her money. And she started the heated arguments between the two of them.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
18 Nov 17
Some people have a habit of fighting with others for no reason . You should speak to her why she does that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
For how many times I tried to tell her to change her attitude so that people will respect her. But she is very hard to deal with.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
18 Nov 17
Take her to doctor soon before things are out of hand
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
I need to buy her time. I need to talk to my other siblings about this.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Nov 17
That's a shame that she creates unpleasantness in the home.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 17
Yes, she is our Mother and she is the one creates a commotion.
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• Peoria, Arizona
18 Nov 17
Does anyone try and sit down with her to see why exactly she does the things she does? Without accusing her of anything?
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• Peoria, Arizona
18 Nov 17
@JustBhem Hopefully she opens up one day so all this fighting can stop.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@DesirousDreamer I am praying for it every day.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
Ever since she is like this. But my Brothers did not believe me. And now its happening they believe me. She doesn't want to talk to us.
@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 17
she needs a doctor to check her head, my mom had this problem and was sent to mental hospital
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 17
What did she do? Is she still in the hospital?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
OMG. I hate to think about it. I think she is normal. I think she has an attitude problem.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
@cahaya1983 She started the fight with my Aunt and my 4th Brother. She let them fight by the gossip she made.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Nov 17
coulld it be dememtia"
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Nov 17
Dementia? I don't think so. I think we badly need to see her a Doctor.