what is this site about again?
November 19, 2017 8:41am CST
Not to sound stupid or whatever but either I have the whole concept wrong or I missed something in the mix but I thought this was a site where you could share things with others on here or did I get that wrong? can U tell me? The reason why I ask cause I'm having a little bit of a misunderstanding with a person that has me wondering is it me that has things confused or the other person, maybe the person is having a bad day or something. But if you could help me understand what this site is about maybe we could help others understand too cause as I see it, I'm seen as being judgemental & if you got the comment I did you'd feel the way I do. If you see me judgemental then I'm sorry I don't mean to be by no means maybe it's just the way I say things that make others feel that I'm judgemental I'm sorry but there's no sense in being rude about it is it?
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• Derry, Northern Ireland
@sugartoes Oh, I agree, 100% Equally, if I get a growl from one of my kids, especially the older daughter, I usually take a step back and leave it a while... half of the knack is recognizing and avoiding a scene. It takes two to argue - and if someone persists in doing it, well, you'll get them in the long grass eventually
• United States
To be honest I would have tried to be sure that was me first. I am hoping it's not but the rudeness from you I have never seen. To be honest I think you might be a little too honest for some people. And that is one of the things I respect about you. I think it could be a good day in the end. I am hoping that we all can be open and live good
Hello Bernie nice to see you around hope you aren't mad at me or anything? Judge mental person is that like a female version of Judge Roy Beany or Judge Judy There might be an opportunity for creating a good quote today like to disagree is to...
• Greencastle, Indiana
@Berniezeitler I try to be nice & respectful of people & yes I do speak my mind & upfront with people but I don't attack them like some have done to me on here & I'm not going to just let it slide likes it's o.k to do when I'm not the enemy.
I think we are not out in left field. We aren't talking about veggies or fallen fruit or newcomers to wondertopia. What could happen though is to go back to the original thing where ever it is because that is what everyone doesn't do here and then see if that was wrong, right, bad, good or judgemental instead of bouncing around the room a thousand times. But if doing that won't work then yeah the only thing left is to walk away.
• Greencastle, Indiana
@Bluedoll I always recheck the comment that I left or the other person left cause we all forget who said what & it's only normal cause you don't want to say the wrong thing, & when I got what I got out of the blue I was like where did THAT come from? I make sure I don't say the wrong thing at the wrong time to the wrong person on here so I don't offend anyone, cause that's just not my style towards people, I respect others as much as I can till they attack me for no reason just for asking or saying something.
• United States
Nah I think you have it right, this is a place to share thoughts, ideas, days and yes even feelings on things. I have never seen you be rude. I know you are straight forward and that doesn't bother me as I am too. To the point I have typed something up and then had to delete it as I knew it was kinda harsh, even it is what I thought or felt. As I have been told I can come off as harsh at times, I try not to but stupidity or other things just get me!
As one of the 25 ways, 25 days of the Church Christmas activities to #LightTheWorld", the 6th of December is inspired by this thing you have written. "Judge not that ye be not judged" (Matthew 7:1). This could be done by being a friend to somebody who is different.
@sugartoes I understand. I know it is too difficult but it is possible if we are justing willing to hunble ourselves and follow what Jesus told us about it. Recently I have posted about peace. How do you define peace by yourself?