Its better to know each other more.

@sjvg1976 (41131)
Delhi, India
November 21, 2017 1:00pm CST
I was going through a discussion from @much2say where she mentioned demise of her Mylot friend. I was thinking after reading her discussion why don't we exchange emails when we become good friends or something so that we may get to know about them if they are not on Mylot for long time. I have been thinking to take emails of my good friends and save them. @jlyn is missing for a long I need to ask her where she is. She normally doesn't remain missing for so long. I have her contact. @theSids is one who is missing from long time I don't know where is he. He was very active in the past. I don't have his contact. I also did a mistake of not taking their emails but from now onwards I won't do that. Hope you too won't and repent when they leave Mylot.
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Nov 17
I am very sad about my friend . . . at the same time I think we were both ok with the conversations we had on these sites as is. It is good that myLot has the PM system - we made use of that - and emailing wasn't necessary. I was thinking that even if we were actually emailing, I may not have received word about his passing anyway, if no one could get into his computer (which I think he was good about) - and it happened so suddenly that he didn't even see it coming. Thankfully he did use his real name here and I was able to do do a search - though it was not the news I wanted to find. But in general, yes - do keep in touch with those you care about! And do tell them you care! Thank you for the mention - it is helping me to deal with things.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
Absolutely...It was one case. Sometimes it also happens th at suddenly a person stops doing mylot due to some reason so we may not be able to know what has happened and if we have his or her email them through we may be able to know about our friend as there are more chances that people check their emails.
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Nov 17
@sjvg1976 That is true . . . it'd be good to have a network of friends so we could relay news in case one of us cannot be here. Facebook is another way for people to keep in touch outside of myLot.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
21 Nov 17
I agree with Deborah.. for those of who want to exchange with others, i think is a good idea. I have exchanged my number with three people, but mainly talk to one. And have gotten addresses for about five, to send gifts or christmas cards to, but could also use those to check on them if need be in the future.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
That's good. I haven't taken anyone's number here but will do that in future.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
@Courtlynn that's another side of it. We must be careful.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
22 Nov 17
@sjvg1976 i only give mine to those i feel i can trust and that im close with. Made a mistake with two.
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@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
21 Nov 17
I have a couple of emails of fellow mylotters. I hope someone in my family has the presence of mind to tell some of them if something happens to me. I have missed @theSids on here as well.
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@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
22 Nov 17
@sjvg1976 No, I don't.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
Even I have emails of few people over here and it's good to talk to them apart from mylot. Do you know where is @thesids
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
22 Nov 17
That's a good idea. Why don't you check @sids Facebook..
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
I am not sure about his real name.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
22 Nov 17
@sjvg1976 is he from Bhuvaneshwar?
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
21 Nov 17
Nobody hinders you from asking myLot members you like to give you their email addresses. I've got some.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
Hmm....I do take emails of fellow users . I was just asking people th at they should also take.