Who makes our problems
I think problem is made between the situation and the people involved. Like timing, suitability, incapacity, wrong decisions, out of space, weather, forgotting, been overlooked, high complaisant, wrong assumption, delays, natural behaviour, etc. But who to blame? Anything can become a requisite. I wake up late, because my neighbor last night had celebrated some occasions and become too loud that I cant sleep. Because of that, I missed my important meeting that morning, wherein my boss got really pissed. Then, after the meeting, having no enough information, which I hope I had given, the client decline our offer which results to our sales to decrease, that no bonus, that my credit card is unpaid resulting to added charges, that I've been bad mood all week long, that my relationship to my wife become worse, that my daughter cant concentrate on her study, that she choose to runaway with her boyfriend because of often arguments at home, and what more! Maybe problems are things that's out of our hands. But we have choices not to make it worst, I suppose.