Learn to move on

Philippines
November 28, 2017 9:08am CST
Our past may explain why we're suffering but we must not use it as an excuse to stay in bondage. We have to learn how to let go of the things that hurts us. We cannot move forward if we keep looking back in the past. Past should be forgotten and present is what we should embrace. We cannot soar high if we keep those burdens inside. Let go of those negative feelings and start a new day full of hope and love. Create a new you. You are beautiful. Value yourself. Start to be happy. Happiness shouldn't be learned. Always remember, happiness starts within you.
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@m_audrey6788 (11509)
• Germany
28 Nov
I agree but not all past sufferings brings negative to our present life but a reminder on how we passed it all through and can share to those who might be needing some inspirational advices
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• Philippines
29 Nov
Yes experience is the best teacher indeed.
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• Germany
29 Nov
@sharon6345 (102032)
• United States
28 Nov
OH what a nice post to read. The sad part is some hurt is just that hard to move forward from. I wish everyone a blessed day
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• Philippines
29 Nov
I agree but one should divert his mind into something that will enjoy himself in order to help him overcome the feeling.
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@cahaya1983 (9677)
• Malaysia
29 Nov
Nice reminder. I think reading positive things and surrounding ourselves with positive people can help the moving forward process easier.
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• Philippines
29 Nov
Yes i agree. We really have to choose our friends wisely and just stay close with the positive ones. At it is said; "Go with the chickens and you will cluck. Go with the eagles and you will fly."
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
30 Nov
@sw8sincere I think we can also wtick with our negative friends and teach them to be positive. Show them how easy it is. Maybe the human spirit will win and the negative will become positive. Do you know that I a small kid, I abused bugs, I chased cats...Now I care for animals, I can't think about abusing.
• Malaysia
30 Nov
@stringer321 I think as kids the negativity is more like a mischievous kind rather than a mentally destructive kind. But in adults the negativity is different, I would say.
@lady1993 (15644)
• Philippines
28 Nov
indeed, although pasts are memories that we should learn something from
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• Philippines
29 Nov
Very true my friend. We won't learn how to stay strong in facing problems if we haven't experienced it. Our past mistakes and past sorrows teaches us a lesson in life and every lesson shall be learned through experience.
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@ddnj2006 (605)
• Philippines
28 Nov
"Embrace the past, envision the future, but always look to this day!" Some quotes I remember from highschool as I have read you're post. Inspiring! But maybe it's embrace not forget, I think.
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• Philippines
29 Nov
Thanks for supplying words that would make our friends here inspire more! Yes it is embrace we should never forget.
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@ridingbet (38053)
• Philippines
29 Nov
i let go and moved on.
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• Philippines
29 Nov
You are amazing not all people has the courage to let go when things on their part are already seemed to be wrong. You must be a strong woman.
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@ridingbet (38053)
• Philippines
30 Nov
@sw8sincere i am, honestly. i can shed a tear because of disgust but after i release that negative emotion, i bounce back, as always.
• Philippines
30 Nov
@ridingbet Same here. It always feels good to be resilient.
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@rina110383 (23482)
29 Nov
Wonderful words for this beautiful day.
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• Philippines
29 Nov
thanks dear. As always I love to inspire people.
29 Nov
Yes ,very we can't move ahead if we don't let go the past.Let us learn from our past experience ,shed off the bad and take the good and live in the present called "NOW" to get the best out of" TODAY ".
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• Philippines
29 Nov
"Forget about the past, it has already happened. Don't seek for the future it hasn't come yet. Focus on what's precious and that is today."
@kiran8 (15256)
• Mangalore, India
11 Dec
I agree with that ...time can be a great healer and the past , however distressing it might have been becomes tolerable and even teach us some lessons when we look back on those incidents or experiences. What is stressful is to bear grudges and become revengeful remembering the past.
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• Philippines
4 Dec
it depends if that bad past is from a particular person and he or she continues to do it and unfortunately you cant avoid this person until now and everytime you see this person and talk it weill remind you the bad thing he or she did to you in the past because like i've said this person enjoys to dump other people because she thinks she's so perfect. its not easy to escape from it if youre still attached to that person until now and that person cant accept her or his mistakes. its not easy for me to forget the past.
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• Philippines
29 Nov
nice story honey
• Philippines
29 Nov
Thanks @natalie su
@JustBhem (22645)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov
Yay. Thanks for this message.
• Philippines
29 Nov
You're welcome.
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