I feel i'm being reasonable

@ricki_911 (17152)
Toronto, Ontario
November 29, 2017 10:18am CST
I went out with a guy a few times and sunday he was late by an hour and a half. I then waited and went home. Now i had a feel he was talking at the least with another woman in the group. Lets say she is umm whats the word disgusting desperate and the list goes on. She is 55 and has tried to sleep with almost every man in the group. She is desperate and as far as the grouo she will try and steal anyone man (even if they met in the group and stayed for events). She has everything hanging out and is very manipulating. I met her once and was so diagusted i would avoid events sge went. Its how she acts vs dressing. She would literally climb all over guys at events etc. So i went out with this guy a handful of times. I made it clear that if i found out he was foing anything with her its done and he blew his chance. I couldnt aleep with him as she's a walking std (thats how much she sleeps around). Well turns out something was happening unsure if they slept together. But thsi quiet drama happened last night where bothnof them left the group. He would be talking to me and when she logged on he disappeared. Ao i bively messaged him said sorry but i dont compete with trash a d you blew all chances. A friend sent me screenshots that he sent her asking what hr should do. He never tried to explain. Example if she was trying to make moves ans he was unvomfortable. He avoided the topic all together. I told himto bugger off as i dont want the drama she causes ans the fact this came up shows one of them is lying. Shes disgusting t'amp so he blew his chance with me. He just can't understand my view even after he admits of spending the night with her. I told him you wont touch me with a 10 foot pole and suggeated he go get tested
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@Happy2BeMe (70157)
• Canada
29 Nov
I would do the same thing. You do not deserve to be treated that way by anybody.
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@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Nov
Nope, and thats how i view it. I'm not out for a 'friend' and sleep with multiple people. I have standards
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@Happy2BeMe (70157)
• Canada
30 Nov
@ricki_911 that is good. Some people just dont care. They are insecure.
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 Dec
@Happy2BeMe so very true! He messaged me yeaterday and claimed he met someone new . I replied with congrats and all nights he kept messaging me. So i'm assuming he hasn't and trying to make me jealous.
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@sharon6345 (110277)
• United States
29 Nov
I wish you a good day. But it's over now so you will be fine.
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@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Nov
I told him to bugger off. I don't lower myself for trash especially one who slept with half the town. He insists its bei g unreasonable. Nope, i don't compete so if he's putting his time into her that alone means ita done.
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@sharon6345 (110277)
• United States
29 Nov
@ricki_911 And for that you should be proud. Now go have the best day you possibly can. I would.
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Nov
@sharon6345 iam i blocked him so he can't mrssage me. Iam going out for lumch with a friens.
@shaggin (26786)
• United States
30 Nov
Ugh all this after him being so late shows lack of real interest in you. Sounds like he just wanted both of you for the same thing she gave him. You are better off without him and I'm glad you told him to get lost!
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 Dec
Agree! I find a lot of guys want their cake from those deaperate type but then want the atrong independent non needy type. I have dealr with such insecure low lifes before.
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@dodo19 (28082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
29 Nov
I'm sorry to hear that this happened. You definitely deserve better than this.
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 Dec
I know i do!. It's sad how people act. But he lost me completely.
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@NJChicaa (29871)
• United States
29 Nov
I'm sorry that this happened. Guess he was desperate for some too if he decided to sleep with her. Yuck.
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 Dec
I agree. But he lost all chances all together. I suggested he get tested.
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@BarBaraPrz (17529)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
29 Nov
Yes, you are being reasonable. You stated your position at the beginning and he chose not to act accordingly. As you've said before, you don't need the drama. You get enough of that from your loving family.
@ricki_911 (17152)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Nov
I tell everyone i date how it is. I don't lower myself for anyone. I keep my goals and hobbies regardlesa. But if he's off with other woman than he doesnt want me that badly.
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