Nothing Worth Having Comes Easy

United States
November 30, 2017 9:44am CST
I don't have a man in my life. I believe I am worthy of a good man. All of my friends from school are happily married. Me? Still waiting. Waiting. Waiting. People tell me to go out into the community. I have. People say to wait on God's timing. I have. People say it will happen when I least expect it. Huh? Are any of you late bloomers in finding a man and how did you snag him? Advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
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@fishtiger58 (30715)
• Momence, Illinois
30 Nov
I didn't marry until a month before I turned 30. I met my husband at work and he was married. I had instant like for him but said nothing because he was married. Some time later I heard he was getting a divorce yessssss and he's seeing someone boooo. I again said nothing. Some time later lol, I heard he was single again and the poor guy didn't have a chance. We will be married 30 years this coming May with two beautiful sons we are forever proud of. I don't have any advice other than the things you have probably heard a million times. So sorry.
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• United States
30 Nov
You are sooooo lucky!
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@fishtiger58 (30715)
• Momence, Illinois
30 Nov
@Spontaneo I know I am, he is a kind and gentle man. He is so mellow he is almost comatose lol.
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@JudyEv (101133)
• Bunbury, Australia
1 Dec
That's a nice story. I'm glad you didn't contribute to the breakdown of the marriage.
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@JudyEv (101133)
• Bunbury, Australia
1 Dec
Well, I wish you luck but I don't have any advice. I am very happily married but if by chance I became single I would be very very choosy next time. But that's just me. I think there are worse things than being single.
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@rina110383 (23520)
30 Nov
Still single today. I don't know if I'll still meet him.
• United States
3 Dec
Have you heard the same advice, like "You'll find him when you least expect it"?
@UncleJoe (8609)
• Virginia Beach, Virginia
5 Dec
To be honest, I have never looked for a man and don't want one.