I truly don't like loaning money.
December 2, 2017 11:41am CST
I had a very bad time with disowning people after not getting back money.Someone I truly love neds $40 Isaid I don't like loaning money. I asked how much theyneeded I woudl give it. I thought it was best. It's 40$ and I said I have it. Buti am not at all willing to begin loaning money. It's not easy for me when I don't get it back. I said yes you can have it. But I was told Iwould get it back.Iwould like it truly to be taken because if I don't get it with a borrow. I lose another person. It's the best thing for me to be easy with it. I am learning things to ease my stres since I am off meds.
10 people like this
• Genova, Italy
I do not like it either. Do you know why? Because I do not lent money.....but I'm so stupid that, I gift !! I can only tell you that, in all the "history", to my brother (who does not deserve anything!), I will have donated something like € 10,000 ($ 11,900) Is there anyone who still thinks I'm smart?
• Boise, Idaho
I won't loan money. My daughter's boyfriend about drove me to distraction when I loaned him some. He said he'd get his money on a certain date. Didn't come so he promised me it on another date. THat went on three times. I was expecting and needed the money. It was very irritating and I will no longer loan out money to anyone.
• United States
I loaned money to two different people that I was close to. Both promised to pay me back in a couple of days. The first woman blew the money on unnecessary junk that were more like impulse purchases than something that a person needed to borrow money for. The second loan was the same trying. It was for crap that really wasn't needed! Neither person has paid me back, nor will they ever pay me back in this lifetime. I no longer "loan" money. I can't afford to keep giving money away, and as soon as people learn that you loan money, everyone comes to you for one. It increases a person's stress levels like crazy when you open your wallet to help others with a "loan"!!!! Then try to borrow from them when there is something that you really need!!!!!
• United States
I never loan money, I give it. I may say it's a loan because they ask for a loan but I think of it as a gift. When it's paid back it's a wonderful surprise, a windfall! I've loaned some money I did not get back but it did not bother me as I considered it a gift. If you truly love that person that needs $40, "loan" it to them but think of it as a gift. Then you won't stress about it now or in the future.