...but I Don't Have Time!!!!
Winston Salem, North Carolina
December 4, 2017 6:56pm CST
Today was not as productive as I wanted it to be. Monday’s are busy under the best of circumstances, but today seemed to include a lot of extra distractions and obligations. That seems to happen to me quite often. And, as I browse discussions here and status updates on Facebooks, “I don’t have time” seems to be a common reason for not doing things we claim we would like to do. My oldest daughter was born with a passion for art. She has been doodling since she discovered that a pencil could leave a mark on a piece of paper. Over the years, she has filled up an innumerable quantity of sketchbooks with drawings. She’s experimented with watercolours and acrylic paints. Graphic arts are clearly a very important part of who she is. She has a lot going on in her life at the moment. She works part-time and is a full-time, straight-A college student. She has a busy social life and still manages both to help out around the house and provide transportation for siblings that don’t drive. However, no matter how busy she is, she ALWAYS finds time to draw. Ultimately, we all manage to squeeze in a bit of time for the things that are really important to us. When I have ten minutes to spare I tend to fritter it away. My daughter uses that time to draw. I think it’s time for me to follow her example, stop making excuses and go tackle those projects that I claim I don’t have time for. What do you want to accomplish that you feel you don’t have time for?
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Time is one thing . . . and energy is another . I guess with me, I kinda stopped doing "my" things when we started a family . . . every bit of me dove into family life. But now that they are both in school, I do have some "me time" . . . still much of that time is spent doing family stuff. I used to figure skate . . . and I have put that on hold for over a decade now . . . I keep saying I would go back on the ice even for a while but never do. Maybe I should tip toe into the rink again .
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@Platespinner Exactly. I can feel quite good that I was a stay at home mom for over a decade now - I got to spend a lot of time with the kids during their precious years. I wouldn't trade it for the world. I used to actually train for figure skating, so that means time and money . . . that was another reason why I completely stopped - everything has been for the kids. But I think I may go back - not to train - but at least find some peace there again.
@Platespinner To keep my house neat and tidy, I should throw out plenty of stuff of my husband. He keeps old computer magazines, all newspapers, everything that broke because he wants to have a look if it can be fixed, too many things to get rid off. Well the house is clean.
She looks very intense on what she's doing here. I wish that I had such a strong passion, I guess my only passion which is near and dear to my heart is baking, but it isn't something that I can complete in a spare few minutes like she can.