December 6, 2017 9:03am CST
I feel very mad about my 5th Brother at the moment. Because we have pork steak for dinner, siblings are happy. We seldom cook meat this time because I and Mother are sick, so we cook simple dishes like fried fish, chicken and sometimes if lazy eggs to the rescue. This time, we have leftover pork steak. So the mother told us not to touch it anymore because we will have it for breakfast, she wants to pair it with fried rice in the morning. This voracious 5th Brother cook rice at this moment though he already ate 3 times for dinner earlier. I told him, not to cook rice because we are saving but he did it anyway. And ate the remaining leftover pork steak. To think he is not helping us with paying the bills and only eat and go. Never helping us here. But so greedy! Now my heart is in pain again. What should I do with this kind of Brother? No work, only rely on others fortune, always drink liquor, eat and go, not helping us at all.
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@JustBhem if you don't tell him what's been happening and how they have been behaving, he will never know about them, and it will get even worse. besides, it's easier to call now with cellphones. he should talk seriously with his sons.
If I'm in your situation, I'll kick him out of the house. Won't tolerate such kind of sh*t. I have no patience for lazy, inconsiderate, free loader relatives/siblings. My brother who lives with my parents does the same thing. When I visit my parents (Holidays), I always throw his clothes outside of my parents' place, exclude his clothes from the laundry, and place the plates/utensils he used in eating on top of his bed. It's my way of teaching him to clean his mess and not to depend on the helper. Sometimes, corporal punishment works.
• Davao, Philippines
I already did this one time. When Mother was confined. He supposed to be the person to take care of the house since some of us are busy doing the rounds for Mother. I was very upset and mad as well when he always beat my nephew when they are alone in the house. I throw his clothes and I even targeted him with a knife, gladly he ran away too fast. Now, since I am not feeling well I cannot scold him hard because I am afraid my heart will collapse. I will have my 3rd or 4th Brother handle this mess he is creating again. So greedy!
I think it should be your mother who should tell him already to better be sharing or find his own place. Your brother is so unshameful. Maybe because it was you who told him not to eat the left-over pork steak and not cook rice anymore, that is why he played a deaf ear. I can feel your anger over this inconsiderate brother of yours.
@JustBhem I think, you should already find a place of your own. Let them survive on their own if your mother is also a selfish one like your brother. Don't stress yourself by being there and seeing and hearing their bad habits and selfishness.