How will you react if your younger sibiling is pampered by your parents very much?h / myLot

India

December 7, 2017 4:46am CST

In many families we see the youngest child is pampered very much by the parents. The parents fulfill their every wish,considering that they are the youngest. When we fight with our sibling, inspite of knowing that we have done nothing wrong,they favor our sibiling's side and scold us. How would you react if your parents support and cover up your siblings mistakes and scold you for your mistakes? Is it fair to do ?

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11 responses

Felicia Kane

@DesirousDreamer (34783)

• Peoria, Arizona

7 Dec 17

It would have been very sad if that actually happened to me. In my step family I was the youngest and I was the one always getting lectured and beaten and everything, while my step siblings were glorified. But I guess that just happens in a step family sometimes.

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Robin

@Daelii (5619)

• United States

7 Dec 17

that's awful! As a step mom I was sure if I bought did something for one stepkid I did it for all. I didn't want to play favorites.

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Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171936)

• Agra, India

7 Dec 17

I will definitely oppose

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Rubeena Bashir Kunju

@rubyriaz007 (4188)

• India

7 Dec 17

I too agree to it.They should pamper both of them equally.

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Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171936)

• Agra, India

8 Dec 17

@rubyriaz007 yes.....no one should feel neglected

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LegTech

@rina110383 (24495)

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7 Dec 17

This happens between me and my parents. They usually spoil our eldest and youngest sibling. What I do is I question their parenting skills and argue with them.

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Timea

@tzwrites (4835)

• Romania

7 Dec 17

I would be very upset probably. I don't know I don't have any siblings.

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peachpurple

@peachpurple (13884)

• Malaysia

7 Dec 17

My parents pampered my younger brother because he is the heir if the family. Of course it isn't fair but what can I do? Kill him ?

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Robin

@Daelii (5619)

• United States

7 Dec 17

Its not fair and it will only serve that child a disservice. It happened with my husbands family. They never learnt skills to even be a self functioning adult ! So its one thing I won't do with my kids.

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Rubeena Bashir Kunju

@rubyriaz007 (4188)

• India

7 Dec 17

You should never do it to your kids. Kids feel bad when their sibling is pampered and they are not. It also spoils their relationship with each other.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (169888)

• United States

7 Dec 17

My sister has always been the favorite. She was kind of the model child and I was the underachiever. It has continued to this day..but can't hate sis..she is a good person.

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Shiva

@Shiva49 (26199)

• Singapore

7 Dec 17

It is not on. That means they are disadvantaging the child. It is said the youngest child never grows up. Give good attention but do not pamper and favor any child over others - siva

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Honey143

@sw8sincere (5204)

• Philippines

7 Dec 17

First I would explain to my parents what really had happen. They should listen to both sides and as for my younger sibling, if he is the one who is wrong then I will let him know that I am not happy with what he did and he should know how to say sorry. It is no longer fair if both of my parents only gives attention to my younger sibling without listening the whole story. I am just thankful my parents gives fair treatment to all of us.

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Susan Humphries

@catsholiday (460)

• Derby, England

7 Dec 17

Fortunately my parents didn't do that. I would find it very hurtful I think

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Hilda

@Hildasalom (937)

• Nairobi, Kenya

10 Dec 17

I will feel very bad

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