It takes a while for me to forgive.
By Jessica
@heyjessieee (8)
December 8, 2017 12:04am CST
There’s this guy who was a cool friend in high school. After we graduated high school(class of 2015) he said something so rude and disgusting, I cut him off after that. Today, ironically here he comes strolling into my life December 7,2017. Apologizing and the whole 9 yards. I’m still cautious and still stuck on what he said to me. When you lose my trust, it’s hard to gain it back. You have to prove to me, same goes for me if it was reversed. You can’t just forgive someone that easy. Even if I do forgive someone so easily, I will never forget what they said to me. Sometimes it’s easier to forgive than to hold on to something.
This is all over the place...sorry. These are my 1:00 AM thoughts.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
8 Dec 17
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@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
8 Dec 17
I feel you.. But possibly, if that person can make it up to you in full, on a level of how much damage has been done, the wounds will heal and the broke crystal of your trust will be regained. Sometimes, time is the only thing that will allow to correct everything. But both will have their part. The one who seek to be forgiven, and the one who offer the forgiveness. Cause sometimes things are not as easy as we thought or as we see, but chances will always be the last resort.
@BearArtistLady (5382)
• United States
8 Dec 17
The saying has always been forgive and forget, but with some things there is a reason for not forgetting. It's called self preservation. The man has to not only EARN your forgiveness but he also has to earn your TRUST!!! Both don't come easily. Once he has earned both your forgiveness and your trust than you'll be able to allow time to erase what he did and forget the pain and hurt he caused.
@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
8 Dec 17
I am the same way , I guess because the situation stays in my head so it’s still there when talking to the person
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@Hildasalom (937)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 Dec 17
You should just forgive and forget.maybe you may need his help one day.
