A heated argument with her.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
December 8, 2017 11:27pm CST
A while ago I was having heated arguments with my so-called Mother. I told her not to tell something not irrelevant to the collector asking for my 2nd Brother. She told a lot of things about the whereabouts of my 2nd Brother and his wife. And aside from that, giving the collector a false information.
I told her to stop doing that because it's not helping them, you are trying to make them bad in the eye of the collector for not paying their debt. Now she is accusing me of minding her own business when in fact I only explain to her that it's their own issue and that she is nothing to do with that.
Whatever it is that they are trying to fix, she should distance herself.
But she likes to meddle in someone's business. She always gathered gossips outside even if she is just sitting the whole day, talking to our neighbors who will just pass our house.
When she'll ever change?
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11 responses
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
you know hija, it is good you vent out your emotions here. we sympathize with you and the reaction of your mother and your siblings to you. but in order for you to get rid of all those misfortunes, our suggestion for you to live away from your house is still not accepted by you. of course since you live in one house, you are a part of the family.
since you are no longer a teenager, your mother has no right to scold you now, because you are already an adult. you know the attitude of your mother so for me, the better way is for you to live out.
but this is just my own personal opinion.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Dec 17
How I wish I can do that now. But sadly, I cant because for so many reasons.
How I wish I can live in one place where the boyfriend and I live in harmony and so that I can work alone.
But I just can't for now. I will try to resolve our bills next year and that I will make a decision. Thanks for your concern and listening to me.
Yes, it helps me a lot to vent here.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
She won’t but you can change by staying away from things that give you stress. It isn’t good for your health physically, mentally, and emotionally. I think it’s a fact that your mother isn’t a good parent From what you have been telling us. So it’s time to just let go. IF you can’t leave that place yet, pretend she doesn’t exist for your own sake.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
@JustBhem I know you are worried about your brother. You can just probably tell him what your mother did and he’ll be the one to decide on what to do with her or talk to her. Avoid any argument with your mom. It’s not helping you at all.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Dec 17
@toniganzon
Yes, I will do that the next time. It just that I can help it sometimes.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
@JustBhem so that's why she likes receiving money because she no longer has a salary
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Dec 17
@hereandthere
Yes, even if she worked before she never buys food for us. We buy food for her.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
With your so-called mother? So is she your step mom? I am just confused.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
@JustBhem Oh I see.. I understand. Some mother are really like that. They won't listen to anybody's point of view but rather stick to their own. Instead of listening they prefer to talk incessantly and tiresomely. I feel sorry for you but just make her an example instead for yourself not to do the same as what she does to you when you became a mother too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Dec 17
@sw8sincere
Well, I hate to say this. But I will never become a Mother. I am sick. I can't bear child anymore.
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@allen0187 (58438)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
I doubt if she will change. In fact, she might just get worse. Best option is for you to live on your own.
