I miss Joe
By Toni
@toniganzon (72285)
Philippines
December 10, 2017 7:46am CST
We first met about 8 years ago and we hit it on instantly. 5 years younger than me but looked and think like he's in his 40s. We had our arguments but mostly intellectual ones. We never really actually fought. We were inseparable till the day came to go back to his home country.
Was sad but he kept in touch. Never failed to call me long distance every single day for about a year. Then we both got busy and the calls became rare. But we always remember each other.
Right now I am just missing his company.
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@thislittlepennyearns (58103)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
10 Dec 17
I'm sorry you are missing him. Have you talked to him recently?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
He made a comment in one of my photos on instagram Saturday night which made me dream about him and made me miss him upon waking up.
I wish to send him a message but I don't want to disturb him. He's a really busy person.
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@LeaPea2417 (36382)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Dec 17
@toniganzon You should send him a message.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
@LeaPea2417 I will later today coz I'm still missing him terribly. For some odd reason, I just seem to be thinking of him most of the time these days.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Dec 17
Nice to have a few friends like that! I say a few friends like that because we only have so much time in a day and we have so much to do.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon Yes, a few are very special!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@1hopefulman That is so true. I don't have a number of friends. I only have a few good ones.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
That is so true and it's right to say a few since not too many people or friends are like that.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
@marguicha We still keep in touch through kakaotalk. And he would comment on my instagram account once in awhile.
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@JamesHxstatic (29233)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 Dec 17
I am sure that he misses you as well.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
Yeah he does. We had a chat this morning and he checked his schedule whether he can visit me in January or February.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@JamesHxstatic Indeed but I'm not keeping my hopes up.
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@JamesHxstatic (29233)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon That is very nice to look forward to.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@JudyEv Just talked to him this morning and he said he'll check out his schedule if he could visit me in January or February,
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
WE haven't actually lost touch. He still sends me a message through kakaotalk or he would comment on my photos on Instagram.
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@JudyEv (325204)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon That's good then.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
aaawww, he is a sweet friend. yes, we miss friends who appreciate our friendship with them. maybe you will have a longer conversation once he is not busy with his work, and you too are not busy as well.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Dec 17
@ridingbet He's already married. He got married this year.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
We had a short chat this morning and he told me he'll check his schedule if he could visit me in January or February.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Dec 17
@toniganzon that is nice. for me, this text mate meeting me will always remain a dream unfulfilled. his girlfriend i think is a jealous one.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 17
Hope you reconnect with him again. You could simply send him a message that you are missing his company.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Dec 17
@toniganzon It would be nice of him if he makes a plan to visit you.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
We did talk this morning and he told me he's going to check his schedule if he could visit me in January or February.
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@shaggin (71654)
• United States
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon That would be wonderful. How far away does he actually live?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@shaggin He's in South Korea. He lives in another country.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
I talked to him this morning and he asked me why did I suddenly send him a message and he asked for a confirmation whether I missed him or not.Of course I told him I did miss him. He said he'll check his schedule if he could visit me in January or February.
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@LeaPea2417 (36382)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Dec 17
I hope the relationship never ends.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
I think it won't ever end. We both value each other's friendship even though we're far apart. We may not communicate that often but we know we got each other's back.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@LeaPea2417 We just talked a few minutes ago and he told me he'll check his schedule if he could visit me in January or February.
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@LeaPea2417 (36382)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon I have a friend like that.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
I'm glad we have the kakaotalk now where we can chat when we can. However, we're both busy people and he's finally married now.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@LadyDuck Yeah, it gets more difficult when we each have our own lives to live. But I'm happy with his success and his newly married life. And I'm sure he's happy with mine. In fact he used to tell me how proud he is of me.
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@LadyDuck (457307)
• Switzerland
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon I imagine you both have very little time. This happens to us and our friends. They have their families and we are all busy people.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
He's married now and I'm happy for him.
There was a time when he was still single and he told me while he was on a date with his girlfriend that he could only talk about me with her. I can just imagine how that girlfriend felt.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
15 Dec 17
@bluesa Oh yeah he does when he suddenly missed me.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
13 Dec 17
@toniganzon oh yes, it would have not been easy for that girlfriend. It is nice he is married now, but I hope he'll still chat with you now and again.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
15 Dec 17
Instagram. He's hardly there though but he checks out my page once in awhile and leaves a comment.
@Hannihar (129346)
• Israel
17 Dec 17
@toniganzon
Toni, that is nice he checks your page and leaves a comment.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
If you see the photo, he told me I'm his best friend. That made him my best friend too.
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@peachpurple (13880)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 17
@toniganzon you two have a strong bonding as friends
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@dgobucks226 (34300)
•
10 Dec 17
So sorry Toni Sounds like a very special relationship. It is sad when distance and time changes things.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
It sucks that we are so far away from each other. However, our friendship remains and that's the most important thing. I think no distance can destroy that.
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@dgobucks226 (34300)
•
11 Dec 17
@toniganzon Yes, you are right! Fond memories can keep friendships strong. The greatest gift to receive is someone's friendship!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@dgobucks226 That is so true and I find it rare to find a friend who remain one through the distance.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
11 Dec 17
Sad that you could not take this further.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
We will always remain the best of friends. I just talked to him this morning and he's checking out his schedule if he could visit me in January or February.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
28 Feb 18
That's true, but at least we still have kakatoalk to check on each other once in awhile. I'm proud that he has reached his dreams and he's now a CEO and he's also proud of me. Actually we both are CEO's now.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
the most important thing is that we maintain the friendship inspire of the distance.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
That's true and I can do it any time.
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@Melanie_Marie (1744)
• New Baltimore, Michigan
11 Dec 17
I hope you guys remain friends forever, even though it seems as if you've lost touch a little. People come back into your life and then leave, then they come back, then they leave, and it's okay... it just goes with the flow of the world revolving and evolving.
If you do ever talk to him again, do me a favor and yell at him for the way he spells "friend". J.K.
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