~Don't Want To Share This. . .~

@Sambriel (2243)
December 11, 2017 5:42pm CST
Why its often believed that ' problem shared is half solved ' there are negative sides to such decisions as to confide in someone close, so much as to share our pain,worries,fears ,plans . . .you name it , most times even while we are so complacent it will eventually turn out for the greater good,having shared it with people we'd thought could help make things right. . . unfortunately it sometimes goes even worse so much so you don't want to share that part of you anymore, don't you think so?
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
Two heads are always better than one as iron sharpens another iron. It is always right to express and share your problem to someone who is always willing to lend an ear but you just got to make sure that, that someone you are going to talk with is someone you have known and close to you. She should be someone who never judge a person easily and a person who knows how to listen and understand and would give advices as a friend than to criticize and judge you negatively.
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@Sambriel (2243)
12 Dec 17
@sw8sincere wow this is explicably educative,but I want you to know just like the weather people change over time you know?
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@rey123 (774)
16 Dec 17
You are absolutely right......But at times even the closest of the closest people tend to misinterpret what we are trying to say......
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
Hello Sam long time no see. I only share my problems when I've already found a solution and I talk it over to people whom I know are there to listen and not to give me advice. I don't want their advice as I know they are not in my situation and it would be easy to say things when you are not in someone's shoes. However, I appreciate that they are listening. Just airing out how I feel lifts the burden a little bit. But normally I consider my problem as personal ones so I never share them to anybody.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Dec 17
@rey123 There are just things that are better kept to ourselves.
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@Sambriel (2243)
13 Dec 17
@toniganzon hey hope you're doing great.thanks for sharing your thought with us quiet helpful
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@rey123 (774)
16 Dec 17
I do the same too......I do not disclose much of my feelings to others.I keep it to myself
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
My confidants' are only a few close friends or family members. I don't open up much at some point. I would rather share them in mylot. And let the mylotters gave their piece of advice.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
15 Dec 17
@Sambriel In some way, I am building my support system virtually in mylot.
@Sambriel (2243)
15 Dec 17
@Shavkat oh OK that's very good to know. . .you have a great day!
@Sambriel (2243)
13 Dec 17
@Shavkat I guess that kinda like makes you feel some sense of security. . .its so great to know.thanks
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• Agra, India
12 Dec 17
Any saying does not fall for everytime
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@Sambriel (2243)
13 Dec 17
@amitkokiladitya where have you been ? Its so nice to hear from you again. . .hope life has been great.thanks my good friend!
@rey123 (774)
16 Dec 17
Yes.I do feel this way at times.I do open up to people who are close to me and also trustworthy.But at times they tend to misinterpret what I'm trying to disclose,making it even difficult for me.....and making me feel like,"Why did I open up this topic in the first place?"
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@Sambriel (2243)
17 Dec 17
@rey123 it happens . . . thanks for contributing! Have a blessed Sunday!