Why don't you have a boyfriend?
By lady Di
@lady1993 (27225)
Philippines
December 12, 2017 5:00pm CST
An office mate of mine asked me that yesterday during lunch time...it was quite awkward amd annoying since it was none of his business at all. So i just said "i didn't say yes to anyone yet." Then he asked again how mamy courted me... i totally ignored him after that.
Some people just don't think before they speak.
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14 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Dec 17
He has no business to poke his nose into your personal affairs. These kinds of guys should be totally ignored.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Dec 17
Some people don't know that some things are none of their business.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 Dec 17
@lady1993 I think that you did well to just ignore and avoid those kind of people.
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
18 Dec 17
@1hopefulman I cannot really avoid him because he sits right behind me
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@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
13 Dec 17
I don't want to be asked too why I don't have a boyfriend. It's my fault I'm not a flirt when I was younger so didn't find a love life
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
13 Dec 17
I do not think it means not having a love life.
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@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
14 Dec 17
If the one who told you that is a girl that already has, then really quite an arrogance.
If it is a man who's also a single, maybe he has some plan on courting you.
If a man with partner already, seems building a peer pressure.
If it is your friend, then maybe just concern?
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@celticeagle (158718)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 17
Some people don't respect others boundaries.
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
13 Dec 17
Oh...funny and crazy people. Not having a boy friend does not mean not having a love life. In India, it is only a negative point to have a boy friend. Of course, the trend is changing now. At the same time, people are not viewing of not having any boy friend as a stigma. Moreover, there is an open verbal attack and criticism of parents allowing their children to have boy friends.
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
17 Dec 17
@lady1993 No..It is not acceptable to the parents. She can have friends. Not boy friend.
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
13 Dec 17
Iam not clear with the guy intention.but the fact is the more you feel offended the more it will disturb you.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
It would have been great if he had asked your age too in front of everyone :)
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
13 Dec 17
This does not make any difference for a lunatic.
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