I really find it very hateful.

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I wanted to be a Mother. I use to say this before. "I'd rather have a baby other than having a husband." One thing for sure I know. There is no marriage that will last. Yes, I am very doubtful and cynical about marriage but you cannot blame me. I'm a product of a broken Family. When I got pregnant. I never think about marriage as the answer. I think about the possibilities of how to make our baby grow. How can we be able to do our responsibilities if one of us doesn't have a stable job? I think about our baby's future. And I know marriage is never the answer. So I lifted the fact that the boyfriend should finish his studies first. We still have plenty of things to do before the baby come out to this world. And who doesn't want to get married? Who doesn't want to wear a beautiful gown and be the beautiful bride in the crowd? Just like most women, I wanted to have a church wedding. To take my vow in front of God's holiness and witness by a lot of people who cared about our relationship. Though I wanted to have a simple wedding. But that will be taken care of someday. But a Mother who is selfish and greedy of attention, jealous of her baby because the attention of the Father and the entire Family is in the baby is somewhat very lame and unethical. I should add, very shameful and disgusting. Not everyone is very lucky to have a baby. Just like me. I had a miscarriage. And that was awful. This friend doesn't know how to be a Mother or doesn't want to be a Mother. She doesn't want to feed the baby or even take care of the baby. Do you think this has something to do with the fact that she still hurting in between her legs? It's been 3 weeks already and her answer is this. "It's still painful and she can't walk."