My father doesn't love me anymore.
By Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41131)
Delhi, India
December 14, 2017 8:14am CST
Lots of things change when we have our own family. 
My father used to love me a lot when I was a child. He used to fulfill our each and every desire small or big. But things have changed now after I have my own kids as now he doesn't even like to talk to me.
I don't know how the things have been changed but they have changed for sure. 
I need to discuss if there is something in his mind . If there is any misunderstanding then it has to be cleared otherwise this gap will broaden only.
In life we should always discuss whenever we feel that our loved person has stopped us loving. What do you say?
My father used to love me a lot when I was a child. He used to fulfill our each and every desire small or big. But things have changed now after I have my own kids as now he doesn't even like to talk to me.
I don't know how the things have been changed but they have changed for sure.
I need to discuss if there is something in his mind . If there is any misunderstanding then it has to be cleared otherwise this gap will broaden only.
In life we should always discuss whenever we feel that our loved person has stopped us loving. What do you say?14 people like this
15 responses
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
14 Dec 17
You should talk to him. Especially since things do change, but not talking to your parent or child shouldnt be the things that change.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 17
@Courtlynn I will do that but I need some time for it.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
14 Dec 17
@sjvg1976 thats why you shouls talk to him.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 17
@peachpurple he is married and have a son.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 17
Oh it is normal for me. My dad stopped loving me when I got married because Chinese folks believed that once your girl is married, she is not your child anymore. Same goes with the son
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
14 Dec 17
I agree its important to talk to people when we feel like something could be a problem. Your father just might be trying to give you your own space and not intrude or feels like he might be a burden. But like you said, there also could be something on his mind or a trouble he isn't sharing. No one will really know, unless they ask and talk about it!
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
17 Dec 17
I was going to say he probably still does love you but gosh I can’t imagine why he doesn’t even want to talk to you. How sad! I do think you should discuss it with him.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
14 Dec 17
Perhaps there is something that he might not want to talk openly about but yet he still wants to talk even though he might not seem to pay any attention to you like you were used to.
Be kind as you can to him and very slowly see if you can get to find out what is troubling him.
Try the odd day here and there to try and talk to him and approach him on different levels to try and see what it is.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
14 Dec 17
@sjvg1976
Sometimes the emotional pain of a person is too deep for them to say so and they become blocked not knowing how to say or what to do.
Try and reach him on various levels like talking to him about any subject that he might like and take it from there.
Only a thought it might just work.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
14 Dec 17
Why don't you take the first step and clear the air?
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
14 Dec 17
Maybe it was just a sort of misunderstanding. You should probably talk to him to clear things out.
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@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
15 Dec 17
Maybe, he's just going through a bad time in his life, and it's not you at all. I hope you can resolve this.
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